1 00:00:27,507 --> 00:00:31,770 Loveable 2 00:00:38,670 --> 00:00:41,818 Can you tell me when you first met? 3 00:00:46,619 --> 00:00:48,117 It was in the summer. 4 00:00:50,190 --> 00:00:53,109 At a party. 5 00:00:54,030 --> 00:00:57,024 I came there with my close girlfriend. 6 00:01:04,398 --> 00:01:08,046 I wasn't doing well. I was going through a divorce. 7 00:01:08,738 --> 00:01:12,613 I've been in a really bad relationship for a long time. 8 00:01:16,568 --> 00:01:21,330 I had two small children that constantly needed me. 9 00:01:23,330 --> 00:01:25,442 Hi. 10 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:27,669 I'm right there. I just want to tell them good night. 11 00:01:27,899 --> 00:01:32,025 I was doing some projects and tried to apply myself. 12 00:01:46,595 --> 00:01:50,589 And then, suddenly, he was there. 13 00:02:01,916 --> 00:02:05,933 The strange thing about it was that I felt I knew him. 14 00:02:05,986 --> 00:02:10,709 I thought, there you are. 15 00:02:12,405 --> 00:02:15,855 Where have you been all this time? 16 00:02:16,437 --> 00:02:19,317 I've never had such a feeling with anyone before. 17 00:02:26,010 --> 00:02:29,401 - Hi. - Hi. 18 00:02:29,870 --> 00:02:32,330 I feel like I know you. 19 00:02:32,404 --> 00:02:35,400 - I just feel I know you. - Aha. 20 00:02:36,568 --> 00:02:38,280 Okay. 21 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:55,797 For months, I only thought about how to get him. 22 00:02:57,901 --> 00:03:02,056 I walked around all the places where I could come across him. 23 00:03:06,856 --> 00:03:08,814 Could I have him? 24 00:03:08,853 --> 00:03:11,080 That wasn't certain at all. 25 00:03:11,494 --> 00:03:13,951 Everyone would like that. 26 00:03:15,602 --> 00:03:20,872 I had to prove it. Otherwise I would never forgive myself. 27 00:03:23,358 --> 00:03:27,237 So we found ourselves in the same place one evening. 28 00:04:53,977 --> 00:04:56,204 He was single. 29 00:04:58,162 --> 00:05:00,505 And he had a lot of friends. 30 00:05:06,225 --> 00:05:08,222 I had children. 31 00:05:12,984 --> 00:05:15,957 And he loved them from the first moment. 32 00:05:50,190 --> 00:05:53,723 That's how it was. 33 00:05:57,294 --> 00:06:01,115 Seven years later 34 00:06:15,188 --> 00:06:16,647 Hello? 35 00:06:16,685 --> 00:06:20,524 Yes. I wrote the proposal yesterday. 36 00:06:20,525 --> 00:06:26,362 Do you need that too? Okay, I'll call later, it's chaotic here. 37 00:06:28,972 --> 00:06:31,814 Get down. 38 00:06:35,424 --> 00:06:37,611 Rejected. 39 00:06:37,612 --> 00:06:41,184 So... Wait. 40 00:06:46,098 --> 00:06:48,747 Also rejected. 41 00:06:49,861 --> 00:06:52,050 Stop it. 42 00:06:56,274 --> 00:06:57,847 Hi can you call me? 43 00:06:57,848 --> 00:06:59,652 You have to transfer money, There is nothing on the card. 44 00:06:59,653 --> 00:07:01,765 Mikaeli, stop it. 45 00:07:02,725 --> 00:07:04,491 Hi! 46 00:07:06,757 --> 00:07:09,022 Lighter shade or sequin? 47 00:07:09,023 --> 00:07:11,557 I need to poop! 48 00:07:11,711 --> 00:07:15,189 - So go! - You don't care. 49 00:07:15,227 --> 00:07:17,969 Ludvigu? Can you clear the dishwasher? 50 00:07:17,970 --> 00:07:20,718 Why me? Alma made the mess in the kitchen. 51 00:07:22,808 --> 00:07:25,749 - Here, Stelo. - I'm hungry. What's for dinner? 52 00:07:25,787 --> 00:07:30,549 - Dad picks us up in 45 minutes. - The teacher said we didn't turn this in. 53 00:07:32,255 --> 00:07:35,902 Stelinka, not this. 54 00:07:35,903 --> 00:07:39,434 - Mom, done... - Almo, will you help him? 55 00:07:39,435 --> 00:07:42,047 - Ugh, I won't wipe his ass. - Please. 56 00:07:42,085 --> 00:07:45,656 - I don't have time, I have to pack. - Just do what I say. 57 00:07:45,695 --> 00:07:49,074 - So I'll go without it. - We'll do it, Ludviga. 58 00:07:49,112 --> 00:07:52,514 You say that. Last time I didn't even have it. 59 00:07:52,552 --> 00:07:55,333 - Mom! - You see, he doesn't want to help. 60 00:07:55,487 --> 00:07:59,173 - It stinks there. - Great, so you take Stella. Hovanous, come here. 61 00:08:08,090 --> 00:08:10,939 You didn't come for them last weekend. 62 00:08:10,940 --> 00:08:13,480 We had a tournament, so it was not possible. 63 00:08:13,518 --> 00:08:17,602 You couldn't? You have to talk to me. 64 00:08:17,603 --> 00:08:19,798 The kids were waiting for you. 65 00:08:19,799 --> 00:08:23,264 You can't do what you want, and not pick up your phone. 66 00:08:23,265 --> 00:08:28,465 - Okay, ready. - I'll grab my headphones. 67 00:08:32,738 --> 00:08:35,598 - Go away! - I just want to talk to you. 68 00:08:35,637 --> 00:08:37,442 I said, go away. Close it! 69 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:40,436 I understand it is difficult to see when your dad and I argue like this. 70 00:08:40,437 --> 00:08:44,930 - Get out! -Watch out, that hurt. - I said, close it! 71 00:08:44,968 --> 00:08:49,336 - I didn't do anything. - You're evil and annoying. Go away! 72 00:08:49,337 --> 00:08:52,725 - That's enough! You can't... - I hate you! 73 00:08:53,123 --> 00:08:58,422 Dad, can I move in with you? I can't stand it here anymore. 74 00:08:58,461 --> 00:09:01,686 It is not out of the question. 75 00:09:02,086 --> 00:09:06,361 - My little girl. Sweetheart. - Your breath stinks. 76 00:09:06,362 --> 00:09:08,061 Bye, handsome. 77 00:09:08,099 --> 00:09:10,658 Look in my eyes, When we say goodbye. 78 00:09:22,460 --> 00:09:24,956 Darling, you are forty years old! 79 00:09:31,125 --> 00:09:33,318 Come with me to Barcelona! 80 00:09:33,319 --> 00:09:35,438 I love you. 81 00:09:55,903 --> 00:09:57,516 - Hi. - Hi. 82 00:10:03,089 --> 00:10:08,603 I bought the wool bottoms for the kids. I hope they will be ok. 83 00:10:08,642 --> 00:10:11,754 It was fun trying to find them. 84 00:10:17,068 --> 00:10:21,246 - How are you? - How do you think? 85 00:10:26,229 --> 00:10:29,915 You probably understand that it bothers me that you never come when you say. 86 00:10:29,954 --> 00:10:35,208 I understand. Things dragged. I couldn't do anything about it. 87 00:10:35,209 --> 00:10:38,058 You don't answer my phone. 88 00:10:38,059 --> 00:10:41,627 Yea, I do, when I can. 89 00:10:44,106 --> 00:10:47,341 You're amazing. 90 00:10:49,074 --> 00:10:52,077 Was it good? Did you manage everything? 91 00:10:52,078 --> 00:10:55,466 It went quite well, in fact. 92 00:10:55,466 --> 00:10:58,008 I played with a few of these people before. So we vibed well. 93 00:10:58,009 --> 00:11:02,592 But the producer had slightly different ideas. 94 00:11:02,593 --> 00:11:07,945 So we changed it up for a while. 95 00:11:07,946 --> 00:11:12,259 I was quite tired. I wasn't in top shape. 96 00:11:12,260 --> 00:11:15,648 I usually sleep badly in hotels, so I was grogy. 97 00:11:15,649 --> 00:11:21,579 It lasted all day. It was exhausting. 98 00:11:21,580 --> 00:11:25,326 It must be exhausting. Sleeping at the hotel and... 99 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,699 God, it's great to be home again. 100 00:11:32,738 --> 00:11:40,034 Wednesday was challenging. Nothing was working out for us. For hours... 101 00:11:40,072 --> 00:11:43,604 Mikael had a trouble at school. Again. 102 00:11:43,605 --> 00:11:46,799 He threw a stone at the windows. 103 00:11:46,837 --> 00:11:49,115 They've been asking us for a meeting for two months. 104 00:11:49,116 --> 00:11:51,619 But I said that I have to wait for you. 105 00:11:51,620 --> 00:11:54,084 - So we can do it together. - Okay. 106 00:11:54,085 --> 00:11:58,082 We'll do it. I'm glad you told me. 107 00:12:04,078 --> 00:12:05,800 I love you. 108 00:12:06,568 --> 00:12:09,799 - I don't. - No? 109 00:12:10,375 --> 00:12:12,910 That's stupid. 110 00:12:23,354 --> 00:12:28,110 You're stupid. You keep leaving me alone. It's hell. 111 00:12:29,267 --> 00:12:32,262 I should report you to the police. 112 00:12:32,301 --> 00:12:36,064 Attempted murder. I almost didn't survive today. 113 00:12:36,102 --> 00:12:38,714 And when I thought that it can't be any worse 114 00:12:38,752 --> 00:12:40,990 and finally made dinner, the fire alarm went off. 115 00:12:41,013 --> 00:12:45,088 You hung it so high that I had to use three chairs to reach it. 116 00:12:45,126 --> 00:12:48,197 Unfortunately, I saw my reflection in the mirror. 117 00:12:48,198 --> 00:12:53,032 And I looked so terrible that I could shoot myself. 118 00:12:54,419 --> 00:12:56,915 I love you. 119 00:12:59,834 --> 00:13:01,562 I love you. 120 00:13:03,635 --> 00:13:05,901 Honey. 121 00:13:06,016 --> 00:13:09,472 And then today they threw the whole project on my shoulders. 122 00:13:09,510 --> 00:13:12,352 - Come on. - Please don't say, come on. 123 00:13:15,309 --> 00:13:17,958 I just don't have it in me. 124 00:13:17,997 --> 00:13:22,490 You can't make conclusions from one try. 125 00:13:22,528 --> 00:13:26,906 Can you stop with this? I have nothing more to offer. 126 00:13:26,944 --> 00:13:30,208 You can't think like that. You have a lot to offer. 127 00:13:30,285 --> 00:13:33,356 You're strong, you have convictions. 128 00:13:33,357 --> 00:13:38,002 You could have chosen an easier way. You didn't. That's why I love you. 129 00:13:38,003 --> 00:13:41,992 You can, you have to believe it. Try to see a positive outcome from a distance. 130 00:13:43,226 --> 00:13:47,834 You're always at a distance, and I'm stuck here all the time. 131 00:13:47,872 --> 00:13:51,246 I can't do it when I have the children all the time. I'm exhausted. 132 00:13:51,285 --> 00:13:53,666 I can't concentrate on work. 133 00:13:53,704 --> 00:13:59,258 This week I had to cancel one meeting after another, because of everything, for dentists... 134 00:13:59,258 --> 00:14:01,960 It doesn't work. I can't concentrate on the job. 135 00:14:01,998 --> 00:14:06,111 I will be home for two weeks now, so you can work. 136 00:14:06,112 --> 00:14:08,181 Two weeks? Are you kidding? 137 00:14:09,678 --> 00:14:13,612 We agreed that you'll stop traveling. 138 00:14:13,613 --> 00:14:17,896 - It wasn't final. - It was. Did you take another job? 139 00:14:17,934 --> 00:14:20,854 It wasn't clear this was for the best. 140 00:14:20,855 --> 00:14:23,281 If something happens and we need to have additional income. 141 00:14:23,282 --> 00:14:27,557 - So you just assumed that I could handle it? - No, stop that. 142 00:14:27,558 --> 00:14:30,254 I said clearly, I don't want it to be like this! 143 00:14:30,255 --> 00:14:35,261 I don't have time or space to breathe. I can't continue like this. 144 00:14:35,262 --> 00:14:38,844 You are not the only one who works. We have to find a different solution. 145 00:14:38,845 --> 00:14:42,472 I can't back out now. It's been two weeks. 146 00:14:42,510 --> 00:14:45,429 I am struggling here alone. So you can just cancel. 147 00:14:45,467 --> 00:14:49,538 That would make me absolutely unreliable. I will never get a job again. 148 00:14:49,538 --> 00:14:51,596 So at least you will help me. That's how I feel. 149 00:16:25,958 --> 00:16:28,072 Yes, I understand. 150 00:16:31,413 --> 00:16:36,405 That's good to hear. 151 00:16:38,555 --> 00:16:41,279 Of course. 152 00:16:43,391 --> 00:16:45,426 Sure. 153 00:16:45,464 --> 00:16:48,651 That's a good idea. 154 00:16:48,959 --> 00:16:51,147 I agree. 155 00:16:54,258 --> 00:16:56,642 I totally agree. 156 00:16:57,253 --> 00:17:01,749 We really care about this. I'm glad we're doing this. 157 00:17:01,784 --> 00:17:03,781 So... 158 00:17:05,048 --> 00:17:07,620 Are you dealing with the school on the phone? 159 00:17:07,621 --> 00:17:12,498 Yes, we really appreciate it. Really? 160 00:17:12,690 --> 00:17:16,567 - We have to pull together. - We will solve it together. 161 00:17:16,568 --> 00:17:20,446 - I'll do it. He will be happy. - Can you hang up? 162 00:17:20,447 --> 00:17:24,324 Great, we stay in touch. I'm glad we discussed it. 163 00:17:24,325 --> 00:17:27,858 - Can you hang up? - Sounds like a plan. See you. 164 00:17:28,664 --> 00:17:31,390 What the hell are you doing? I'm talking to someone here! 165 00:17:31,391 --> 00:17:35,192 Did you deal with them on the phone? 166 00:17:35,730 --> 00:17:40,106 - Did you arrange anything? - And why not. They called first. 167 00:17:40,107 --> 00:17:43,758 They said we were postponing it for too long and we had to talk. 168 00:17:43,797 --> 00:17:47,057 Yes, I said We do have to talk. 169 00:17:47,058 --> 00:17:50,321 We postponed it because you've been gone for months. 170 00:17:50,322 --> 00:17:53,627 I said I was waiting for you, so that we can both be there. 171 00:17:53,666 --> 00:17:57,156 - Don't you understand it is important? - Is it really rocket science? 172 00:17:57,157 --> 00:17:59,921 I don't have to ask you everything. 173 00:17:59,922 --> 00:18:05,950 I postponed it for you. But you cut me out completely. 174 00:18:05,951 --> 00:18:10,482 Calm down. We agreed that it will be judged by the school board. 175 00:18:10,559 --> 00:18:12,136 Then it won't be up to us. 176 00:18:18,775 --> 00:18:23,157 - Did you arrange this? - Yeah. 177 00:18:23,195 --> 00:18:28,490 You can't just do that when I'm not here. 178 00:18:29,335 --> 00:18:31,830 This does not need judging by someone else. 179 00:18:31,831 --> 00:18:37,058 You have no idea what he needs right now. Are you a completely stupid? 180 00:18:37,096 --> 00:18:40,893 Are you? You just can't do something like this! 181 00:18:40,894 --> 00:18:45,698 You can't show up here, do what you want, and not even ask me. 182 00:18:45,736 --> 00:18:48,228 Why did you do that? 183 00:18:49,726 --> 00:18:52,149 Can you answer me? 184 00:18:52,187 --> 00:18:55,869 Why did you do that? Do you not give a fuck what I think? 185 00:18:55,870 --> 00:18:58,711 Get fucked! 186 00:18:58,980 --> 00:19:03,203 Stop! Don't you see I am trying to help you? 187 00:19:03,204 --> 00:19:07,428 I'm trying to do something proactive. I can't stand this anymore! 188 00:20:40,426 --> 00:20:42,406 Marie? 189 00:20:43,803 --> 00:20:45,544 What is it? 190 00:20:46,831 --> 00:20:50,286 This is not working. 191 00:20:52,151 --> 00:20:54,750 What do you mean by that? 192 00:20:54,751 --> 00:20:59,759 You can't act like this. Someone has to help you with that anger. 193 00:21:00,536 --> 00:21:02,515 - Help? - Yes. 194 00:21:02,516 --> 00:21:06,779 Some anger management or something. 195 00:21:07,446 --> 00:21:09,390 I can't do this. 196 00:21:09,429 --> 00:21:12,106 I can't do this either. 197 00:21:13,834 --> 00:21:16,829 - I mean it, seriously. - Me too. 198 00:21:17,175 --> 00:21:21,179 I do not need any anger management course. But maybe you do? 199 00:21:23,281 --> 00:21:28,964 The way you treat me- it destroys me. 200 00:21:29,386 --> 00:21:33,198 What I'm doing? What you're doing, makes me sick. 201 00:21:33,237 --> 00:21:38,180 You're so angry. Look at yourself. You're raging. 202 00:21:45,064 --> 00:21:51,054 What you mean is that I should change, because you want to stay the same? 203 00:21:51,542 --> 00:21:55,152 Plus, you're at least as angry as I am. 204 00:21:57,225 --> 00:21:58,876 Hello? 205 00:22:28,174 --> 00:22:30,515 Who wants yogurt? 206 00:22:30,516 --> 00:22:33,588 - Me! - Ok, say please. 207 00:22:33,742 --> 00:22:36,328 But no. You see it? 208 00:22:38,465 --> 00:22:42,881 Can you wipe this up? Thank you. That's helpful. 209 00:22:44,186 --> 00:22:47,911 It was just a little bit. Do you want milk too? 210 00:22:48,334 --> 00:22:51,674 Good morning. There is coffee in the kettle. Help yourself. 211 00:22:53,134 --> 00:22:55,092 Mom! 212 00:22:56,513 --> 00:22:59,623 - Mom! - Stello! 213 00:23:06,150 --> 00:23:09,568 - Mikaeli. We have to go. - Okay. 214 00:23:11,104 --> 00:23:12,794 Well. 215 00:23:17,056 --> 00:23:19,898 - Dad... - Yeah. 216 00:23:20,166 --> 00:23:22,970 We're going, Mikael. 217 00:23:23,891 --> 00:23:26,426 So come. 218 00:23:27,923 --> 00:23:30,112 - Dad. - Let's go. 219 00:23:33,914 --> 00:23:35,833 I am willing to work on myself, you know. 220 00:23:35,834 --> 00:23:38,843 But I am not going to accept that you will not participate in it. 221 00:23:40,595 --> 00:23:43,552 Wait for your dad. 222 00:23:48,313 --> 00:23:51,193 Do you want a divorce? 223 00:24:02,212 --> 00:24:04,708 Do you want a divorce? 224 00:24:06,244 --> 00:24:08,932 For God's sake, answer me. 225 00:24:15,267 --> 00:24:18,032 Dad is coming. 226 00:24:25,020 --> 00:24:28,246 - Who wants to go to bed? - I... 227 00:24:33,582 --> 00:24:36,770 Will you sleep here? 228 00:24:37,634 --> 00:24:41,397 I have a headache. I need to sleep. 229 00:24:42,530 --> 00:24:47,714 - Can we not talk? - I don't have it in me right now, Marie. 230 00:24:47,906 --> 00:24:50,306 Can't we at least sleep together? 231 00:24:50,344 --> 00:24:52,973 I have to keep it together. I'm not good. 232 00:24:52,974 --> 00:24:55,739 I can't just change. 233 00:24:56,430 --> 00:24:59,770 You know how tired I am. I can't. 234 00:24:59,771 --> 00:25:02,037 You'll wake up the children. 235 00:25:03,611 --> 00:25:07,527 We'll talk about it tomorrow. It's too late. 236 00:25:07,528 --> 00:25:11,022 - Did you meet someone else? - Not at all. 237 00:25:12,597 --> 00:25:14,901 So what's going on? 238 00:25:15,554 --> 00:25:19,355 - What's the matter? - We'll talk tomorrow. 239 00:25:19,701 --> 00:25:23,234 We have to sleep. Please. 240 00:26:00,939 --> 00:26:03,765 I can't stand this. 241 00:26:03,803 --> 00:26:07,122 I can't stand here like this. 242 00:26:07,391 --> 00:26:10,731 - Okay, no. - No? 243 00:26:20,369 --> 00:26:22,326 I'll leave. 244 00:26:22,327 --> 00:26:25,475 Until you find out what you want. The kids will be with you. 245 00:26:25,476 --> 00:26:28,471 - Okay. - Okay? 246 00:26:28,586 --> 00:26:29,546 Okay. 247 00:26:31,236 --> 00:26:36,189 Is this a good solution? Me leaving? 248 00:26:36,190 --> 00:26:40,206 You came up with it. If that's what you need. 249 00:26:41,028 --> 00:26:43,600 I just can't stand it in this house, when it's like this. 250 00:26:43,601 --> 00:26:47,248 I understand that. Just do what's best for you. 251 00:26:47,249 --> 00:26:50,474 So you think, that's what is best for me? 252 00:27:48,570 --> 00:27:52,256 Mikaeli, do you think I'm very angry? 253 00:27:52,295 --> 00:27:57,440 - No. - Marie, snap out of it. 254 00:27:58,861 --> 00:28:02,509 - Mikael, do you find your mom angry? - Stop it. 255 00:28:02,663 --> 00:28:06,272 Would he tell me if he thought so? 256 00:28:30,731 --> 00:28:34,917 Can you at least hug me? 257 00:28:46,858 --> 00:28:49,047 I love you. 258 00:28:57,264 --> 00:29:00,259 Shit... You're such a ass-hole. 259 00:29:00,873 --> 00:29:02,064 How shitty... 260 00:29:41,382 --> 00:29:45,722 - Thank you. You're very nice. - I try to be. 261 00:29:46,835 --> 00:29:50,790 - I'll call you. Good luck. - Thanks. You too. 262 00:30:34,064 --> 00:30:39,133 Sigmund here. I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 263 00:30:43,702 --> 00:30:47,926 I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 264 00:31:00,059 --> 00:31:03,668 Does anger destroy your family relationships? 265 00:31:03,669 --> 00:31:07,201 Brange Method of Mastering Anger can help. 266 00:31:07,202 --> 00:31:10,426 For use by anybody over 18 years of age, who has problems with anger... 267 00:31:10,427 --> 00:31:12,730 And violent manifestations towards their loved ones. 268 00:31:12,731 --> 00:31:15,149 Every kind of violent behavior can be changed. 269 00:31:15,150 --> 00:31:20,373 The problem needs to be solved before it disrupts family relationships. 270 00:31:27,437 --> 00:31:29,165 A little space. 271 00:31:38,380 --> 00:31:41,068 - Hi. - What are you doing here? 272 00:31:41,145 --> 00:31:45,983 I just wanted to see you. How about going for coffee? 273 00:31:45,984 --> 00:31:49,400 Don't come here. It's embarrassing. 274 00:31:49,401 --> 00:31:52,626 What's embarrassing, that I came to greet you? 275 00:31:52,627 --> 00:31:55,083 Just go away, Mom! 276 00:31:55,084 --> 00:31:59,231 Don't you understand how this hurts me? I'm just trying to be nice. 277 00:31:59,232 --> 00:32:02,917 You don't have to talk to me like that. You can at least hug me. 278 00:32:02,918 --> 00:32:05,682 I don't want you to come here. Is that so hard to understand? 279 00:32:05,683 --> 00:32:08,792 And why not? I never come here. 280 00:32:08,793 --> 00:32:12,747 This is so horrific, that someone will stop by here? 281 00:32:12,748 --> 00:32:17,931 I never come to school. I thought you would like it. 282 00:32:17,932 --> 00:32:20,850 For God's sake, but this is awkward, when your mother comes to greet you. 283 00:32:20,851 --> 00:32:23,615 - A terrible embarassment! - You're crazy, Mom. 284 00:32:23,616 --> 00:32:27,571 So go! Just go! Leave! 285 00:32:32,831 --> 00:32:38,130 Almo, I'm sorry. It was stupid. Sorry. 286 00:32:54,334 --> 00:32:59,094 Sigmund here. I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 287 00:32:59,095 --> 00:33:01,668 Hi, it's me. 288 00:33:02,282 --> 00:33:06,007 I just wanted to know how you are doing. 289 00:33:07,121 --> 00:33:12,458 And if you come to the city tomorrow, could you bring me an eczema cream? 290 00:33:12,458 --> 00:33:16,913 It's in the upper shelf in the bathroom, to the left. 291 00:33:17,527 --> 00:33:19,984 I'm very itchy. 292 00:33:19,985 --> 00:33:23,824 More than normal. I don't know what it is. 293 00:33:23,825 --> 00:33:28,625 I can't sleep. I guess I'll have to go to the doctor. 294 00:33:29,162 --> 00:33:34,039 You couldn't call me, or write? 295 00:33:37,648 --> 00:33:41,641 I forgot to take socks and underwear. 296 00:33:41,642 --> 00:33:45,405 If you could bring those too. Okay. 297 00:33:46,710 --> 00:33:49,091 Good. 298 00:33:52,586 --> 00:33:55,658 Honey 299 00:34:51,449 --> 00:34:55,403 I just have a meeting. I found only the blue underwear. 300 00:34:55,404 --> 00:34:58,744 I know you don't like these very much, but this morning was a bit hectic. 301 00:34:58,745 --> 00:35:02,431 And this is the cream, isn't it? 302 00:35:03,238 --> 00:35:07,423 Did you decide what you want? 303 00:35:08,959 --> 00:35:13,720 I think we both need a little time and space. 304 00:35:13,721 --> 00:35:17,983 Now it is important for me not to define anything. 305 00:35:20,210 --> 00:35:23,397 - I have to go back there. - Remember... 306 00:35:23,398 --> 00:35:26,661 You have to treat Mikael's wart. Once a week. 307 00:35:26,662 --> 00:35:29,541 - The solution is in the bathroom on the shelf. - I've already done that. 308 00:35:29,542 --> 00:35:34,494 And the thermos. When I washed it after the school trip, it stunk. 309 00:35:34,495 --> 00:35:38,488 You have to dismantle it and rinse it with boiling water. 310 00:35:38,489 --> 00:35:40,677 - Okay, I'll do it. - And... 311 00:35:40,678 --> 00:35:44,978 I never had a chance to give you this. 312 00:35:47,014 --> 00:35:49,087 You have to read it. 313 00:35:53,081 --> 00:35:55,576 I haven't found a babysitter yet. But I'll do it. 314 00:35:55,577 --> 00:35:58,534 To know what awaits us. 315 00:35:58,918 --> 00:36:01,567 When we're together again. 316 00:36:01,913 --> 00:36:07,289 The holiday is already paid. So you can take someone else with you. 317 00:36:12,587 --> 00:36:16,657 - I have to go back. - I was looking forward to working again. 318 00:36:16,658 --> 00:36:18,846 But in this situation, I can't. 319 00:36:18,885 --> 00:36:21,495 And I don't have a job with sick leave, so I won't have money. 320 00:36:21,496 --> 00:36:23,991 So you will have to pay all the bills. 321 00:36:23,992 --> 00:36:26,871 So I should come back, so I don't lose my job. 322 00:36:26,872 --> 00:36:30,021 - I really want to work. - I know. 323 00:36:30,059 --> 00:36:33,554 I don't understand why you're doing this. I don't understand. 324 00:36:35,090 --> 00:36:39,850 - We can't discuss it now. - I'm not good enough for you anymore? 325 00:36:39,851 --> 00:36:43,460 If I had improved, you wouldn't have done this? 326 00:36:43,461 --> 00:36:47,377 But I can't improve. I can't. 327 00:36:47,378 --> 00:36:50,564 I really try. I'm completely exhausted. 328 00:36:50,565 --> 00:36:54,328 I sacrificed everything, what I dreamed of. 329 00:36:54,482 --> 00:36:56,977 - I'm a complete shit. - Don't hit yourself. 330 00:36:56,978 --> 00:37:01,970 - I'm not worth anything. - Don't do this, please. 331 00:37:02,661 --> 00:37:06,654 When I take a course with people that are beating their 332 00:37:06,693 --> 00:37:09,226 children or have psychiatric issues, will you want me? Tell me what to do! 333 00:37:09,227 --> 00:37:12,490 I am so horrible, I don't know that either. 334 00:37:12,491 --> 00:37:15,716 Look at me. I'm going back in. 335 00:37:15,717 --> 00:37:21,054 You have to get it together. Talk to someone. It will help you. 336 00:38:28,710 --> 00:38:32,090 He won't leave you. 337 00:38:32,243 --> 00:38:36,197 I don't believe that. He just needs a little space. 338 00:38:36,198 --> 00:38:38,464 I don't know. 339 00:38:39,731 --> 00:38:42,610 I have a feeling that anything can happen. 340 00:38:42,611 --> 00:38:46,681 As if I didn't know him anymore. I don't understand what he's doing. 341 00:38:46,682 --> 00:38:49,945 He never had a long relationship before you. 342 00:38:49,946 --> 00:38:52,633 And then he met Dracula. 343 00:38:52,634 --> 00:38:56,051 That was a little bad luck. 344 00:38:56,742 --> 00:38:59,545 But seriously. He lacks the experience you have. 345 00:38:59,546 --> 00:39:02,501 With children and previous relationships. 346 00:39:02,502 --> 00:39:05,765 - Did he have any relationships before? - Yeah, half a year. 347 00:39:05,766 --> 00:39:08,953 But he hasn't experienced such a situation yet. 348 00:39:08,954 --> 00:39:11,564 When someone has to try, to make it work. 349 00:39:11,565 --> 00:39:15,135 - I think you two need therapy. - But he doesn't want therapy. 350 00:39:15,136 --> 00:39:17,224 He wants me to change. 351 00:39:18,246 --> 00:39:20,896 He can't say that. 352 00:39:21,702 --> 00:39:25,081 He would have to say that before a third person. 353 00:39:25,082 --> 00:39:29,189 If they are scared, distancing from 354 00:39:29,190 --> 00:39:31,954 someone else, they're certainly not saying something. 355 00:39:31,955 --> 00:39:34,911 Has he ever attended therapy? No. 356 00:39:34,912 --> 00:39:36,985 Is he talking about it with friends? 357 00:39:36,986 --> 00:39:40,133 He doesn't vent much about anything. Except with me. 358 00:39:40,134 --> 00:39:44,357 If he really wants to leave you, a mediator is mandatory. 359 00:39:44,358 --> 00:39:47,583 When you have children and want a divorce. 360 00:39:47,584 --> 00:39:52,000 - Maybe he would nod. - That's a minimum. 361 00:40:06,514 --> 00:40:10,431 - Maria and Sigmund? - Yes. 362 00:40:10,738 --> 00:40:12,428 Good morning. 363 00:40:13,273 --> 00:40:15,423 Come on. 364 00:40:17,305 --> 00:40:21,451 So Sigmund says that he feels he doesn't have space. 365 00:40:21,452 --> 00:40:24,830 And that he feels trapped. Do I understand it well? 366 00:40:24,831 --> 00:40:30,475 Yes. It destroys me. I don't know. 367 00:40:30,476 --> 00:40:36,120 It's hard to know now. That's why I need space. 368 00:40:36,121 --> 00:40:37,540 Do you need space? You're still working. 369 00:40:37,541 --> 00:40:40,459 And I'm all alone. I'm exhausted. 370 00:40:40,460 --> 00:40:42,955 You have a lot of space. How can you say this? 371 00:40:42,956 --> 00:40:46,257 We agreed I would finally work and you will stay at home. 372 00:40:46,258 --> 00:40:50,635 You still take a job, I tell you to cancel it, and you want a divorce! 373 00:40:50,636 --> 00:40:52,479 Where the hell are we? 374 00:40:52,517 --> 00:40:55,281 I understand, that you have a lot to get off your chest, Marie. 375 00:40:55,282 --> 00:40:58,929 But can we first focus on you, Sigmunde? 376 00:40:58,930 --> 00:41:01,694 - Is it okay, Marie? - Yes. 377 00:41:01,695 --> 00:41:07,300 Why is it difficult for you to get space, when you feel you need it? 378 00:41:07,301 --> 00:41:10,450 It's not that easy to say. 379 00:41:10,604 --> 00:41:14,251 Personal space and work are two different things. 380 00:41:14,252 --> 00:41:18,476 You have at least one of them, I don't have any. 381 00:41:18,821 --> 00:41:24,043 Maria interferes with everything, she's everywhere. 382 00:41:24,044 --> 00:41:27,193 I don't know how to explain it. 383 00:41:27,500 --> 00:41:32,376 I don't feel good anywhere. 384 00:41:32,377 --> 00:41:35,640 I have no way to get involved. I have no place at home. 385 00:41:35,641 --> 00:41:39,172 Now there is no room for anyone. It's a really hectic period. 386 00:41:39,173 --> 00:41:43,627 I'm interested in what you want to say, Sigmunde. 387 00:41:43,628 --> 00:41:47,391 Why is it so hard for you to find space? 388 00:41:47,583 --> 00:41:51,077 I don't know why I can't get any space. 389 00:41:51,193 --> 00:41:55,992 But what do you mean? That you don't get the space? 390 00:41:55,993 --> 00:41:59,870 We are in perpetual conflict. 391 00:41:59,871 --> 00:42:03,249 Especially when I try to have some space. 392 00:42:03,250 --> 00:42:06,936 Are conflicts difficult for you? 393 00:42:06,937 --> 00:42:09,585 Yes, they are exhausting. 394 00:42:09,586 --> 00:42:13,310 Do you think it's just Maria's fault, that you have so little space? 395 00:42:13,311 --> 00:42:16,728 Or can you do something about it? 396 00:42:16,729 --> 00:42:22,180 I don't know. In fact, I don't know what to say now. 397 00:42:22,181 --> 00:42:25,444 There's so much anger that I can't see clearly. 398 00:42:25,445 --> 00:42:29,246 Sure, the man is angry when everything is still on me. 399 00:42:29,247 --> 00:42:33,777 - It's not fair. - There's a lot on me too. 400 00:42:33,778 --> 00:42:37,080 I took care of your children from the previous relationship. 401 00:42:37,081 --> 00:42:39,691 That's something costly. 402 00:42:39,692 --> 00:42:41,803 Will we count that too? 403 00:42:41,804 --> 00:42:45,720 Of course I appreciate what you are doing for the older children. 404 00:42:45,721 --> 00:42:50,443 But you coming to stay with us, that was hard transition for everyone. 405 00:42:50,444 --> 00:42:53,745 If you could just be here now, I would have a lot more time and freedom. 406 00:42:53,746 --> 00:42:56,126 We just have to survive this phase. 407 00:42:56,127 --> 00:42:58,353 Children are small, we don't have a nanny. 408 00:42:58,354 --> 00:43:01,464 We do not have grandparents to help. We have uncertain finances. 409 00:43:01,465 --> 00:43:04,075 We have to hold it together with four children. 410 00:43:04,076 --> 00:43:06,225 He can escape from it, when he goes tough. 411 00:43:06,226 --> 00:43:10,412 - I have already divorced once... - This is from the winter holidays. 412 00:43:11,180 --> 00:43:12,715 Did you record it? 413 00:43:12,716 --> 00:43:15,134 We cannot leave if he doesn't have a jumpsuit! 414 00:43:15,135 --> 00:43:17,745 It was the only thing you were in charge of! 415 00:43:17,746 --> 00:43:21,892 But you don't care! See you! 416 00:43:21,893 --> 00:43:25,041 It's taken out of context. You can't let it go. 417 00:43:25,042 --> 00:43:27,537 Good. I don't think we have to listen to it now. 418 00:43:27,538 --> 00:43:30,034 My God. 419 00:43:32,684 --> 00:43:36,715 Do you ever get get angry, Sigmunde? 420 00:43:36,716 --> 00:43:39,596 No... I don't know. 421 00:43:40,095 --> 00:43:45,471 But you feel angry when Marie is angry with you. 422 00:43:46,201 --> 00:43:51,307 If you don't know if you're angry, maybe that's a problem. 423 00:43:51,308 --> 00:43:55,876 But you understand that your anger affects this? 424 00:43:55,877 --> 00:43:57,681 That's just the distance. 425 00:43:57,682 --> 00:44:02,328 I do not think that if I take an anger management course, it will solve it. 426 00:44:02,329 --> 00:44:05,592 I understand it is difficult for you, to defend yourself. 427 00:44:05,593 --> 00:44:09,201 But I find it strange to accept, that you need more space. 428 00:44:09,202 --> 00:44:12,888 Since you have more space than me. 429 00:44:12,889 --> 00:44:19,492 We have to solve it together and I am willing to go to therapy. Together. 430 00:44:19,493 --> 00:44:23,065 Yea, I don't know if I'm ready for that. 431 00:44:25,023 --> 00:44:31,013 The time will expire soon, so we'll finish up. 432 00:44:31,167 --> 00:44:36,620 I would like to explain and summarize at what stage we are now. 433 00:44:36,927 --> 00:44:41,151 Marie, you want this relationship to work. Is that right? 434 00:44:41,189 --> 00:44:44,761 And Sigmunde, What do you want now? 435 00:44:45,567 --> 00:44:51,404 I'm not sure If I want to continue. 436 00:44:51,865 --> 00:44:56,817 But you have to say something. I can't live with this uncertainty. 437 00:44:56,818 --> 00:45:01,273 You have to be able to say if you want to try to fix it or not. 438 00:45:03,423 --> 00:45:07,147 This is horrible. I have nothing to take away from this. 439 00:45:07,148 --> 00:45:09,182 I can't get out of this mental space. 440 00:45:09,183 --> 00:45:12,676 This is difficult for you, Mary. I understand that. 441 00:45:12,677 --> 00:45:17,438 You want to return home and put things right. 442 00:45:17,439 --> 00:45:20,857 - Yes. - Yes, I understand. 443 00:45:21,202 --> 00:45:25,771 We could set a deadline, when you give Mary a clear answer? 444 00:45:25,772 --> 00:45:28,037 Ok well. 445 00:45:28,229 --> 00:45:32,337 What would you say. A day or a week? 446 00:45:32,338 --> 00:45:36,293 That would be good, so she doesn't have to wait too long. 447 00:45:36,524 --> 00:45:40,440 I can express myself in a few days. 448 00:45:40,441 --> 00:45:45,970 Great. So until Wednesday in the evening? 449 00:45:46,508 --> 00:45:49,234 Does it suit you, Marie? 450 00:45:58,257 --> 00:46:01,674 In any case, we will meet here on Thursday. 451 00:46:01,675 --> 00:46:04,226 And we'll discuss a little more, what awaits you next. 452 00:46:04,264 --> 00:46:07,741 Together and separately. 453 00:46:07,742 --> 00:46:10,545 I think it's important. 454 00:46:14,424 --> 00:46:17,704 Sorry. Are we finished? I guess they called me from work. 455 00:46:22,525 --> 00:46:27,210 Could you help me with some personal info? 456 00:46:27,479 --> 00:46:28,802 Sure. 457 00:46:51,477 --> 00:46:55,239 He said he would give me an answer me in the evening, but nothing yet. 458 00:46:55,240 --> 00:46:59,655 He will definitely answer. He normally keeps his promises, right? 459 00:46:59,656 --> 00:47:04,225 Yeah. He'll consider if we're married... 460 00:47:04,226 --> 00:47:09,525 It's going to be okay. I just think... 461 00:47:11,559 --> 00:47:15,821 I don't know. What do you think he will write? 462 00:47:17,434 --> 00:47:24,231 Try not to think about it. Breathe deeply. 463 00:47:24,269 --> 00:47:28,300 Try to sleep a little. He loves you. I know that. 464 00:47:28,301 --> 00:47:33,409 If he leaves you, he's stupid. And he's not. 465 00:47:39,496 --> 00:47:44,258 I have to go to sleep. Could you not answer me? 466 00:48:02,190 --> 00:48:06,122 I fell asleep with Stella. I just wrote you an email. 467 00:48:17,334 --> 00:48:19,485 Dear Marie, I would like to thank 468 00:48:19,715 --> 00:48:24,093 you for all the beautiful moments. 469 00:48:24,976 --> 00:48:27,510 They meant a lot to me. 470 00:48:29,699 --> 00:48:34,768 But you have to prepare for the fact that I will leave this relationship. 471 00:49:18,963 --> 00:49:23,187 Sigmund here. I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 472 00:49:26,183 --> 00:49:27,987 Mom! 473 00:49:30,253 --> 00:49:34,861 I can't stand this. I can't stand it. 474 00:49:50,335 --> 00:49:53,051 Prepare for the fact that I will leave this relationship. 475 00:49:53,676 --> 00:49:56,277 Prepare for the fact that I will leave this relationship. 476 00:49:56,479 --> 00:49:59,398 Prepare for the fact that I will leave this relationship. 477 00:49:59,590 --> 00:50:02,815 Prepare for the fact that I will leave this relationship. 478 00:50:26,353 --> 00:50:31,070 Sigmund here. I can't talk now. Please leave a message. 479 00:50:31,345 --> 00:50:34,416 I get that you won't answer. I'm coing home for the children. 480 00:50:34,417 --> 00:50:36,796 So go where you want. I can do this without you. 481 00:50:36,797 --> 00:50:40,521 But I won't say a word to you anymore. 482 00:50:40,522 --> 00:50:44,323 I hope you are happy. I won't be in this hole anymore. 483 00:50:44,324 --> 00:50:46,320 I'm going home and ending this. 484 00:50:46,321 --> 00:50:50,161 At least kindly confirm that you got this message. 485 00:51:00,681 --> 00:51:03,054 Cool. You can keep your children. 486 00:51:12,968 --> 00:51:16,040 What? Did he really write this? 487 00:51:17,730 --> 00:51:20,949 So... Super. 488 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,906 I am very sorry that it is like this. 489 00:51:26,907 --> 00:51:32,053 I just have to go through a terrible hell. 490 00:51:33,090 --> 00:51:36,199 I can do it. I have a lot of work anyway. 491 00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:41,231 I have to clean the bathroom and send a few emails. 492 00:51:41,307 --> 00:51:45,608 Should I stop by? 493 00:51:45,647 --> 00:51:49,448 I'll take a brush. Today I can sleep there. 494 00:51:49,487 --> 00:51:54,786 You're very nice, but I can do it. No need. 495 00:51:54,863 --> 00:51:57,742 - Are you sure? - I can do it. 496 00:51:57,743 --> 00:52:02,350 But if you change your mind, you can call me. Do you promise? 497 00:52:02,351 --> 00:52:06,767 - Do you promise? I will call. - Ok bye. 498 00:52:21,089 --> 00:52:24,084 - Hello. - Hello. 499 00:52:24,238 --> 00:52:26,618 We have to wait for Sigmund. 500 00:52:26,618 --> 00:52:30,650 He just wrote to me that he isn't coming. 501 00:52:30,650 --> 00:52:34,260 - Did he? And why can't he come? - He didn't say. 502 00:52:36,833 --> 00:52:38,363 Shit. 503 00:52:41,095 --> 00:52:46,120 But when you have time, we could continue further. 504 00:52:47,777 --> 00:52:48,885 Myself? 505 00:52:49,812 --> 00:52:53,383 Maybe you'll get something out of it. Who knows? 506 00:52:55,150 --> 00:52:59,368 Apparently it turned out a little differently than you expected. 507 00:53:00,487 --> 00:53:06,362 I don't know why I'm sitting here, when he needs this. 508 00:53:07,514 --> 00:53:11,541 He just gets out of it and won't do anything? 509 00:53:11,579 --> 00:53:17,800 He will need to, I think. One way or another, whether he comes here now or not. 510 00:53:19,149 --> 00:53:22,565 But it is not important to you what he is doing right now. 511 00:53:22,566 --> 00:53:25,407 You have to take care of yourself and your own life now. 512 00:53:25,408 --> 00:53:29,516 You have to concentrate on solving your affairs. 513 00:53:29,517 --> 00:53:32,392 What's within you. 514 00:53:34,355 --> 00:53:37,038 What do you mean what's within me? 515 00:53:37,077 --> 00:53:40,725 That's the big question. 516 00:53:41,382 --> 00:53:45,452 We should focus on what role you play? 517 00:53:45,453 --> 00:53:51,557 Me? He wants to leave. Do you think I provoked it? 518 00:53:51,558 --> 00:53:57,966 - Do you think that? - No. I don't know what you mean. 519 00:53:58,005 --> 00:54:02,770 Do you hold any responsibility for this situation? 520 00:54:02,771 --> 00:54:06,457 I guess so. I probably have a small share in it. 521 00:54:06,458 --> 00:54:10,489 But that doesn't matter much now, when he wants a divorce. 522 00:54:10,490 --> 00:54:12,213 All right. 523 00:54:12,909 --> 00:54:17,781 So we start with your little share. 524 00:54:22,277 --> 00:54:25,195 Okay. 525 00:54:25,196 --> 00:54:29,419 Last time you told me he had returned from work and wanted to take another job. 526 00:54:29,420 --> 00:54:34,219 And that he called the school, without discussing it in advance. 527 00:54:34,220 --> 00:54:37,329 And then he suddenly wanted a divorce. 528 00:54:37,330 --> 00:54:38,866 Yes. 529 00:54:39,557 --> 00:54:44,241 - Would you tell me again? - I told you. 530 00:54:44,242 --> 00:54:48,965 Yes. But try to say it again. 531 00:54:49,580 --> 00:54:54,687 Tell me how he returned home, after he was gone for six weeks. 532 00:54:57,067 --> 00:55:01,175 I was very tired. I filled the dishwasher. 533 00:55:01,176 --> 00:55:03,864 And he just walked into the door. 534 00:55:04,593 --> 00:55:08,432 And what happens when you see him? How did you feel? 535 00:55:08,433 --> 00:55:12,888 I was glad to see him. I love him. I felt that. 536 00:55:14,270 --> 00:55:16,728 And then? 537 00:55:17,534 --> 00:55:21,987 He's happy. He's coming towards me, he wants to hug me. 538 00:55:21,988 --> 00:55:27,364 I leave the dishes and go to him. He hugs me. 539 00:55:27,518 --> 00:55:32,164 - Do you embrace him too? - Not too long. 540 00:55:32,971 --> 00:55:35,812 Don't you want to hug him? 541 00:55:36,657 --> 00:55:39,537 Actually, no. 542 00:55:40,382 --> 00:55:43,915 Why don't you want to hug him, when you felt so happy to see him? 543 00:55:46,449 --> 00:55:51,096 - I don't know. - And then what happens? 544 00:55:51,134 --> 00:55:54,283 He starts to help me with the dishes. 545 00:55:56,664 --> 00:55:59,544 Did you miss anything? 546 00:56:00,043 --> 00:56:04,843 When you stop hugging him, what does he do? 547 00:56:06,686 --> 00:56:12,753 I don't know. Maybe he's a little surprised or sad. 548 00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:15,172 And you? 549 00:56:16,593 --> 00:56:19,319 I turn away. 550 00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:22,084 Why? 551 00:56:23,313 --> 00:56:29,342 - I don't know. - Why are you turning away like this? 552 00:56:32,259 --> 00:56:35,599 I want him to feel badly. 553 00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,057 Why do you want that, to make him feel bad? 554 00:56:38,058 --> 00:56:42,242 - I don't know. - Because he did something? 555 00:56:42,243 --> 00:56:46,966 - Yes, he left us. - But did you agree? 556 00:56:46,967 --> 00:56:50,652 - Yes. - So you agreed. 557 00:56:50,653 --> 00:56:55,720 - Yes. - Why do you feel badly? 558 00:56:59,292 --> 00:57:01,327 I don't know. 559 00:57:06,319 --> 00:57:08,392 And what happens then? 560 00:57:10,927 --> 00:57:15,342 - He starts talking about the job. - He's sharing with you? 561 00:57:15,343 --> 00:57:19,182 - Yes. He's pleased. Telling me. - And you? 562 00:57:19,183 --> 00:57:22,408 I don't like it. I want him to stop. 563 00:57:22,409 --> 00:57:24,059 - Why? - I don't know. 564 00:57:24,060 --> 00:57:27,899 I'm just uncomfortable. So I break it up. 565 00:57:27,900 --> 00:57:29,051 And what do you say? 566 00:57:29,090 --> 00:57:33,390 Mikael had trouble at school. Again. 567 00:57:33,391 --> 00:57:40,110 You want him to feel that Mikael's problems are his? 568 00:57:40,917 --> 00:57:44,757 I know he's not responsible for them. 569 00:57:44,795 --> 00:57:49,019 But you still want to feel like it. 570 00:57:49,173 --> 00:57:51,630 - Yes. - Why? 571 00:57:51,822 --> 00:57:57,159 Because it happened when he was gone. Because he wasn't here with me. 572 00:57:57,160 --> 00:58:01,000 Do you think he could do something differently in that situation? 573 00:58:03,381 --> 00:58:05,147 No. 574 00:58:06,606 --> 00:58:10,830 But you still want him to feel guilty. 575 00:58:11,483 --> 00:58:12,866 Yes. 576 00:58:13,710 --> 00:58:15,400 Why? 577 00:58:17,589 --> 00:58:21,083 Why do you want to make him feel bad? 578 00:58:28,225 --> 00:58:34,253 You remember other situations, where you wanted him to feel like this? 579 00:58:43,545 --> 00:58:48,268 Try to remember the moments, when you behaved like this. 580 00:58:52,991 --> 00:58:54,642 Are you ok? 581 00:59:26,166 --> 00:59:32,579 With pleasure I know that we are fortunate 582 00:59:32,925 --> 00:59:40,144 As long as I live here with pleasure 583 00:59:40,834 --> 00:59:44,213 I am just an optimist 584 00:59:47,708 --> 00:59:50,356 What is happening in this situation? 585 00:59:50,357 --> 00:59:53,620 I don't want to dance because it's not comfortable for me. 586 00:59:53,621 --> 00:59:55,964 I feel stupid. 587 00:59:56,117 --> 01:00:00,264 When they see that I am happy, they will laugh at me. 588 01:00:00,265 --> 01:00:02,498 I don't want to lie like that. 589 01:00:05,717 --> 01:00:09,096 - Hey, I'll do it. - That's ok. 590 01:00:09,097 --> 01:00:11,976 It's not worth it. You don't know what's what. 591 01:00:11,977 --> 01:00:15,278 - I know. I'll do it. - When I segregate them, 592 01:00:15,279 --> 01:00:17,851 I have underwear for Mikael and Ludvig gets Stellina's pants. 593 01:00:17,852 --> 01:00:21,345 You don't even know the cotton patterns. 594 01:00:21,346 --> 01:00:23,956 But I know. Sit down. I'll do it. 595 01:00:23,957 --> 01:00:27,688 No! You're never here. You don't know what goes where. 596 01:00:27,726 --> 01:00:32,411 In the end I have to do it myself. It's just giving me another job. 597 01:00:34,517 --> 01:00:36,667 Ok well. Whose is this? 598 01:00:36,668 --> 01:00:39,970 - Yours? - Sure, mine. 599 01:00:42,005 --> 01:00:45,154 Great, Sigmunde. Look. 600 01:00:45,769 --> 01:00:49,532 Does it fit? It's Mikaela's. 601 01:00:49,724 --> 01:00:51,644 What about this? 602 01:00:53,641 --> 01:00:56,251 These are Almina's pants. 603 01:00:56,252 --> 01:01:00,629 They're pajamas. Ludvig's pajamas. See? 604 01:01:03,662 --> 01:01:08,930 I think you've known for a long time you want to leave. 605 01:01:21,141 --> 01:01:26,893 I don't understand. You did so much for the relationship. 606 01:01:27,277 --> 01:01:31,231 You're the one who's vulnerable. He is the one who wants to leave. 607 01:01:31,232 --> 01:01:35,609 Maybe I was waiting around because of what happened in my childhood. 608 01:01:35,610 --> 01:01:38,374 Dad left mom. I have been so worried about it since 609 01:01:38,375 --> 01:01:41,830 then that I subconsciously stick it out in the relationship. 610 01:01:41,831 --> 01:01:43,866 Why would you do that? 611 01:01:43,943 --> 01:01:46,745 Maybe I'm trying to keep him somehow. 612 01:01:46,746 --> 01:01:50,824 You try to keep him and you push him away? 613 01:01:52,122 --> 01:01:57,536 If he feels guilty, he will 614 01:01:57,575 --> 01:02:01,491 think that I am better than him. 615 01:02:02,144 --> 01:02:07,366 And then he will think that he's lucky to have me. 616 01:02:07,367 --> 01:02:10,130 And that he must stay with me. 617 01:02:10,131 --> 01:02:17,043 So I try to make him feel he is worse than me. 618 01:02:17,351 --> 01:02:21,997 Come to think of it, how terrible am I? 619 01:02:22,573 --> 01:02:27,143 You're kidding. 620 01:02:27,834 --> 01:02:31,175 You think that you are worse than him? 621 01:02:31,674 --> 01:02:35,706 You're great. 622 01:02:38,432 --> 01:02:41,235 I love you very much. 623 01:02:43,347 --> 01:02:46,457 Sorry. The sweater itches terribly. 624 01:02:46,458 --> 01:02:50,221 - It's terribly itchy. The sweater. - Seriously? 625 01:02:54,290 --> 01:02:56,287 Ok well. 626 01:03:17,597 --> 01:03:20,785 You were always afraid that he will leave you? 627 01:03:22,359 --> 01:03:25,164 What happens if he leaves you? 628 01:03:25,895 --> 01:03:28,316 I will die. 629 01:03:28,700 --> 01:03:34,657 - Do you die? - Yes. Or disappear. 630 01:03:36,538 --> 01:03:39,113 Why? 631 01:03:39,458 --> 01:03:42,569 Because he takes everything with him, everything that is good in my life. 632 01:03:42,570 --> 01:03:45,452 Nothing remains. 633 01:03:46,451 --> 01:03:51,362 So if he stays... is only that good enough? 634 01:03:53,138 --> 01:03:56,750 All that is good, is tied to him? 635 01:03:57,442 --> 01:03:59,632 Yes in a certain way. 636 01:03:59,633 --> 01:04:02,592 In a certain way he is too good for me. 637 01:04:05,052 --> 01:04:07,874 Actually I don't understand why he's with me. 638 01:04:11,738 --> 01:04:14,735 But sooner or later it will come up. 639 01:04:16,850 --> 01:04:20,308 When he has time, to create space for himself. 640 01:04:20,884 --> 01:04:23,842 Or to be with other people. 641 01:04:23,843 --> 01:04:28,993 He will see that it is much better to be there than with me. 642 01:04:34,741 --> 01:04:36,522 Hi. 643 01:04:37,467 --> 01:04:39,195 My little girl. 644 01:04:41,039 --> 01:04:43,573 You could at least comb your hair. 645 01:04:43,611 --> 01:04:47,011 Good morning. You are here. 646 01:04:47,605 --> 01:04:50,677 - Your father is late, I heard. - Yes. 647 01:04:51,099 --> 01:04:55,898 We want to talk about Alma today. You really did it this semester. 648 01:04:55,899 --> 01:04:59,892 Made a great impression on me- what you managed. 649 01:04:59,893 --> 01:05:03,194 And you create a good atmosphere in the classroom. 650 01:05:03,195 --> 01:05:06,036 You are kind, cheerful and caring. 651 01:05:06,037 --> 01:05:08,801 And you turn in assignements on time. 652 01:05:08,802 --> 01:05:12,693 Did you see her workbook? It is perfectly organized. 653 01:05:12,731 --> 01:05:16,520 I didn't see it. Why didn't you show it to me? 654 01:05:17,058 --> 01:05:22,127 I don't have to check her tasks. She's always all right. 655 01:05:22,165 --> 01:05:24,277 That's right. 656 01:05:24,469 --> 01:05:27,041 Other parents complain about class meetings. 657 01:05:27,042 --> 01:05:31,380 How children do not complete tasks. 658 01:05:31,381 --> 01:05:34,682 How they still have to chase after them. 659 01:05:34,683 --> 01:05:38,792 I've never chased after you. You do everything by yourself. 660 01:05:38,831 --> 01:05:42,593 You don't need help or advice. It's great. 661 01:05:42,594 --> 01:05:47,253 Exactly. Is that a little too much for you, Almo? 662 01:05:47,291 --> 01:05:49,173 I don't mind. 663 01:05:50,888 --> 01:05:53,576 That would be your father. 664 01:05:53,768 --> 01:05:56,687 That's him. One second. I'll go get him. 665 01:06:03,828 --> 01:06:06,246 - It's great. - What are you talking about it? 666 01:06:06,247 --> 01:06:09,856 - What? -You don't know about my tasks. - Can't you just be silent? 667 01:06:09,857 --> 01:06:13,926 I wanted to say that you are independent. Can't I even commend you? 668 01:06:13,927 --> 01:06:16,730 - Just don't talk about it anymore. - It's true. 669 01:06:16,730 --> 01:06:19,725 I've never needed to check up on you. I don't have to. You do what you have to. 670 01:06:19,726 --> 01:06:22,298 That's good. It would certainly exhaust you. 671 01:06:22,298 --> 01:06:24,602 - Come on. - Why would you bother. 672 01:06:24,602 --> 01:06:27,789 - Why do you say that? - You're horrible, Mom. 673 01:06:27,790 --> 01:06:30,784 You don't understand anything. You want to work and endure everything. 674 01:06:30,785 --> 01:06:34,010 But I'm not like you. You don't need anything from anyone. 675 01:06:34,010 --> 01:06:38,119 It suits you like that, But I'm not like you. 676 01:06:42,074 --> 01:06:43,917 Hi. 677 01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:48,370 Just to summarize what we said earlier. 678 01:06:48,371 --> 01:06:52,825 Alma is doing great and works well in a team. 679 01:06:52,826 --> 01:06:54,323 Great. 680 01:07:22,008 --> 01:07:25,809 Mary Kristin and Erlend live here. 681 01:07:26,654 --> 01:07:28,728 I'm coming! 682 01:07:35,139 --> 01:07:38,749 Hi. Is that you? 683 01:07:38,864 --> 01:07:41,936 I thought I'd stop by. 684 01:07:42,090 --> 01:07:46,813 Honey. How are you doing, sweet girl? 685 01:07:47,159 --> 01:07:50,077 - Yeah... - Come in. 686 01:07:50,384 --> 01:07:53,801 Fortunately, you're strong. 687 01:07:53,802 --> 01:07:56,642 You're like me. You've always been. 688 01:07:56,643 --> 01:07:59,906 The women in our family last through almost anything. 689 01:07:59,907 --> 01:08:07,356 Actually, I often say, what strong women there are in our family. 690 01:08:07,471 --> 01:08:11,964 Mom, me, you, alma... 691 01:08:13,116 --> 01:08:19,337 I also often think of those years with your dad and the divorce. 692 01:08:20,028 --> 01:08:24,962 Of course it was difficult. But I got through it. We did. 693 01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:28,936 And you have the same power in you. It will be good again, Marie. 694 01:08:28,937 --> 01:08:31,932 It's going to be okay. It will be. 695 01:08:34,466 --> 01:08:39,996 - I brought this to you. - What is it? 696 01:08:40,380 --> 01:08:43,606 Just a gift. Nothing special. 697 01:08:43,798 --> 01:08:46,255 There's a lot of paper. 698 01:08:46,370 --> 01:08:50,786 It's from nice shop around the corner. I know you like it. 699 01:08:50,786 --> 01:08:53,358 - Aha. - Of course you can return it. 700 01:08:53,359 --> 01:08:57,237 You wanted the tea we had in London. Do you remember? 701 01:08:57,238 --> 01:09:00,846 - Seriously? I don't remember that. - Yeah. 702 01:09:00,847 --> 01:09:03,419 You really liked. You said so. 703 01:09:03,420 --> 01:09:07,010 Okay, but you know what? I stopped drinking black tea completely. 704 01:09:07,048 --> 01:09:09,986 They turn my teeth yellow. That's not fun at my age. 705 01:09:09,986 --> 01:09:12,597 You can't enjoy anything. 706 01:09:12,598 --> 01:09:16,206 My neighbor was whitening her teeth. 707 01:09:16,207 --> 01:09:18,506 That's the fashion now. Teeth whitening. 708 01:09:18,530 --> 01:09:22,350 I have a lot of work to do today, So this wasn't quite planned. 709 01:09:22,351 --> 01:09:27,688 Neighbor had a flooding issue. I had to help her with it. 710 01:09:27,689 --> 01:09:33,755 And I have a lot of stress with ticket arrangements for the concert. 711 01:09:33,756 --> 01:09:38,171 And this week they called me at least a hundred times. 712 01:09:38,172 --> 01:09:41,627 Because of the anniversary of our association. 713 01:09:41,628 --> 01:09:45,237 - Aha. - Here's a list of what I have to do. 714 01:09:45,238 --> 01:09:48,501 It's such a mess here, that I can hardly live here. 715 01:09:48,502 --> 01:09:52,072 I wanted to put everything on the ground, but nothing can fit anymore. 716 01:09:52,073 --> 01:09:56,181 And you didn't take your things from the storage either. 717 01:09:56,182 --> 01:09:58,792 - Everything is still laying there. - I can take it. 718 01:09:58,793 --> 01:10:01,174 I will believe it when I see it. 719 01:10:02,940 --> 01:10:06,511 I can still drink green tea. 720 01:10:06,703 --> 01:10:10,082 This one is excellent. 721 01:10:10,236 --> 01:10:13,385 And look at the cute box. 722 01:10:13,500 --> 01:10:18,454 It's cute. Don't you want to sit in your place? 723 01:10:21,794 --> 01:10:24,404 We can switch. I'll sit in your place. 724 01:10:24,405 --> 01:10:27,400 As you like. 725 01:10:27,477 --> 01:10:31,662 But don't you want to sit in your old place? 726 01:10:33,890 --> 01:10:37,114 You always sat there. Like a queen. 727 01:10:37,115 --> 01:10:41,415 You always wanted to just sit there. You didn't have to help. 728 01:10:41,416 --> 01:10:46,522 And I did everything. We jumped around you. 729 01:10:46,523 --> 01:10:51,015 And you sat like a princess and waited for us to serve you. 730 01:10:51,016 --> 01:10:55,240 And that was you. Do you want some cheese? 731 01:10:55,816 --> 01:11:00,386 - Sweetheart. Will you have some? - I'll bring bread. -No. 732 01:11:01,346 --> 01:11:05,185 Why are you talking about that place at the table? What are you trying to say? 733 01:11:05,186 --> 01:11:08,756 - What? - That I just sat there. 734 01:11:08,757 --> 01:11:11,482 And you do everything for me. 735 01:11:11,483 --> 01:11:13,748 That's just how it was. 736 01:11:13,749 --> 01:11:16,551 But why are you telling me this now? What do you want to achieve? 737 01:11:16,552 --> 01:11:19,700 That was just banter. 738 01:11:19,701 --> 01:11:23,656 You liked to be served. 739 01:11:23,848 --> 01:11:29,282 You were such a prima donna. 740 01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:32,065 This is nothing new. 741 01:11:32,066 --> 01:11:36,673 - Do you find it funny? - For God's sake, have a little sense of humor. 742 01:11:36,674 --> 01:11:40,744 Does everything have to be such drama? 743 01:11:41,282 --> 01:11:45,314 When you stop laughing, there's nothing left. 744 01:11:45,390 --> 01:11:47,349 Sweetheart. 745 01:11:47,502 --> 01:11:53,339 I bought great cheese at the deli. Wil you have some? 746 01:11:54,530 --> 01:11:58,714 Are you trying to tell me that I wanted too much? 747 01:11:58,715 --> 01:12:05,896 Actually, I really felt a bit like a maid. 748 01:12:06,586 --> 01:12:10,233 - Sometimes. That's right. - In what sense? 749 01:12:10,234 --> 01:12:16,300 You were just like that. It was hard to give you boundaries. 750 01:12:16,301 --> 01:12:20,141 You were actually quite challenging. Really. 751 01:12:22,983 --> 01:12:25,786 Ok, let's see. 752 01:12:35,500 --> 01:12:37,804 Mom? 753 01:12:42,297 --> 01:12:45,523 - Mom. - Yes. What is it now? 754 01:12:46,406 --> 01:12:50,015 I don't really think it feels good for you to give me anything. 755 01:12:50,016 --> 01:12:54,354 What do you mean? I do nothing but give. 756 01:12:54,355 --> 01:12:57,734 I have been alone with you all these years. 757 01:12:58,003 --> 01:13:02,687 If you didn't notice what I gave you, it really surprises me. 758 01:13:02,688 --> 01:13:06,796 - I'm not saying you didn't give me anything. - No. So what are you saying? 759 01:13:06,873 --> 01:13:10,021 I was all alone, for you. 760 01:13:10,022 --> 01:13:13,862 When your dad left. Drunk and desperate. 761 01:13:14,016 --> 01:13:20,389 Every evening I cried, exhausted, in the kitchen. 762 01:13:20,390 --> 01:13:22,539 I know that. 763 01:13:22,540 --> 01:13:28,377 I was so unfortunate. It was a nightmare. 764 01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:32,677 I must not start thinking about it. 765 01:13:32,678 --> 01:13:36,403 I couldn't do that now. That's certain. 766 01:13:36,787 --> 01:13:40,088 I didn't say you didn't give anything. 767 01:13:40,089 --> 01:13:41,739 - No? - I said... 768 01:13:41,740 --> 01:13:46,117 that I think you don't feel good when I give you something. 769 01:13:46,118 --> 01:13:49,650 - How so? - That it doesn't feel good for you. 770 01:13:49,651 --> 01:13:54,143 That we don't receive gifts well. 771 01:13:54,144 --> 01:13:56,869 - Like the tea I gave you. - Yes? 772 01:13:56,870 --> 01:13:59,480 I think you were not happy that you got it from me. 773 01:13:59,481 --> 01:14:02,706 What are you saying. I was very happy. 774 01:14:02,707 --> 01:14:04,818 - Seriously? - Yes, I was. 775 01:14:04,819 --> 01:14:08,389 - And how did you show it? - I hate these interrogations. 776 01:14:08,390 --> 01:14:10,655 That's what I hate about you. 777 01:14:10,656 --> 01:14:13,574 Now you tell me you don't like me. That you hate me in a way. 778 01:14:13,612 --> 01:14:16,146 - Stop. - As if you were eternally angry at me. 779 01:14:16,147 --> 01:14:20,063 As if you wanted me to be gone. To not feel good. 780 01:14:20,064 --> 01:14:23,019 As if you want to make me feel miserable. 781 01:14:23,020 --> 01:14:26,015 Maybe you felt this anger towards my dad. 782 01:14:26,016 --> 01:14:29,931 Before his death, he said you laughed at him and that it was unpleasant. 783 01:14:29,932 --> 01:14:34,079 - Even about something good. - He has something to say! 784 01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:37,459 Maybe you wouldn't do that, If you knew what you were doing. 785 01:14:37,497 --> 01:14:40,838 Watch your mouth, Marie! 786 01:14:40,876 --> 01:14:43,064 Be so kind! 787 01:14:43,065 --> 01:14:45,715 It seems to me that you want is to make me feel miserable. 788 01:14:45,753 --> 01:14:49,093 Do you ever think of others. 789 01:14:49,094 --> 01:14:52,856 But you never cared. It's just me, me, me! 790 01:14:52,857 --> 01:14:56,619 When you came today I thought to myself: "That's so nice. 791 01:14:56,620 --> 01:15:03,570 Maybe she'll say to me: How are you? Are you tired? Do you need help?" 792 01:15:03,571 --> 01:15:05,951 But no, you're not doing that. 793 01:15:05,952 --> 01:15:10,559 Your brother, yes. He is tender and caring. 794 01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:13,823 When you were little, he was there for me, when I was tired. 795 01:15:13,824 --> 01:15:16,741 You never did anything like that. You're not like that. 796 01:15:16,742 --> 01:15:19,890 Don't you see you don't want to remember anything good about me? 797 01:15:19,891 --> 01:15:24,536 You don't want what I give you. I can never make you happy. 798 01:15:24,537 --> 01:15:27,839 Why could you never could believe that I have something good in me? 799 01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:30,488 That I wish you the best. 800 01:15:30,489 --> 01:15:33,714 That I'm not bad, that I have a good heart. 801 01:15:33,715 --> 01:15:37,285 As if I wasn't good enough for you, no matter what I do. 802 01:15:37,286 --> 01:15:43,238 I understood that I live with an inner voice, which tells me I'm terrible. 803 01:15:43,315 --> 01:15:48,229 And useless. I feel it deep in my chest here. 804 01:15:48,230 --> 01:15:50,342 Ok. 805 01:15:50,496 --> 01:15:54,950 And is that my fault too? 806 01:15:55,027 --> 01:15:58,021 I'm not saying it's your fault, Mom. But maybe... 807 01:15:58,022 --> 01:16:02,015 I guess I can't stand it anymore, Marie. I'm completely exhausted. 808 01:16:02,016 --> 01:16:05,778 I was so glad when you came. But you just came to criticize me. 809 01:16:05,779 --> 01:16:07,698 I'm just one woman. 810 01:16:07,699 --> 01:16:11,576 I'm not a machine and I can't stand everything. 811 01:16:11,577 --> 01:16:16,146 I'll go for a walk. You can leave. 812 01:16:16,147 --> 01:16:18,066 I can't bear so much criticism. 813 01:16:18,067 --> 01:16:22,252 Maybe the others around you do, but I don't. 814 01:17:03,054 --> 01:17:05,627 How are you? 815 01:17:06,947 --> 01:17:09,827 Quite well. 816 01:17:13,667 --> 01:17:17,237 I was thinking about what we discussed last time. 817 01:17:17,238 --> 01:17:20,578 That you feel like the bad one. 818 01:17:20,579 --> 01:17:25,802 The one who can't receive. It must be painful for you. 819 01:17:30,178 --> 01:17:35,669 It's not... painful. It's... 820 01:17:36,245 --> 01:17:38,242 It's fine. 821 01:17:39,049 --> 01:17:41,237 Really? 822 01:17:41,890 --> 01:17:46,152 Many people are much worse off than I am. 823 01:17:46,153 --> 01:17:51,145 But that doesn't mean that it doesn't hurt either. 824 01:18:06,542 --> 01:18:09,844 I probably can't talk so much today. 825 01:18:11,035 --> 01:18:14,952 I didn't sleep at all. I'm terribly... 826 01:18:15,681 --> 01:18:18,368 - Tired. - Okay. 827 01:18:18,369 --> 01:18:23,168 - Do you want to stop? - I'm so tired I can't think. 828 01:18:23,169 --> 01:18:27,650 - I probably have to relax. - You can relax here. 829 01:18:31,117 --> 01:18:34,918 I have the couch here. Don't you want to lie down? 830 01:18:34,919 --> 01:18:37,106 - I can't. - Why not? 831 01:18:37,107 --> 01:18:42,675 - That would be strange, right? - Of course it's up to you. 832 01:18:42,829 --> 01:18:45,785 You are at work. You don't want spend your time in vain. 833 01:18:45,786 --> 01:18:47,771 It would spoil your work day. 834 01:18:48,551 --> 01:18:54,079 Yes, but I want to spend my time like this. 835 01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:57,843 If you need to relax, I'd like to allow you. 836 01:18:59,187 --> 01:19:01,951 Will you accept it from me? 837 01:19:01,952 --> 01:19:05,984 You are tired. And what you need is here. 838 01:19:08,480 --> 01:19:12,243 You can relax here. 839 01:19:12,551 --> 01:19:14,778 If you want. 840 01:19:22,303 --> 01:19:24,262 Okay. 841 01:19:35,973 --> 01:19:38,661 This is really caring. 842 01:19:46,301 --> 01:19:48,836 That was very nice. 843 01:19:53,367 --> 01:19:56,169 I'll sit here. 844 01:19:56,170 --> 01:20:00,201 This is not necessary. Certainly you have a lot of work. 845 01:20:00,202 --> 01:20:04,657 Don't worry about me. I will be better soon. 846 01:20:05,156 --> 01:20:07,690 I'm not going anywhere. 847 01:20:10,417 --> 01:20:16,598 I can sit here and look at you. Or I can look out the window. 848 01:20:16,599 --> 01:20:19,210 But I will be mindful of you. 849 01:20:21,975 --> 01:20:27,044 I am glad that I have that opportunity. 850 01:20:33,993 --> 01:20:37,372 Heck... I'm just tired. 851 01:20:37,948 --> 01:20:40,214 No wonder. 852 01:20:48,047 --> 01:20:51,503 Sorry, I'm just terribly tired. 853 01:20:52,418 --> 01:20:54,760 That's okay. 854 01:21:01,332 --> 01:21:05,018 It's normal, that you feel like this, Marie. 855 01:21:07,822 --> 01:21:10,932 Sorry. 856 01:21:11,854 --> 01:21:15,886 I don't know what it is with me. I didn't sleep at all. 857 01:21:20,262 --> 01:21:23,258 I'm not normally like this. I don't know... 858 01:22:03,421 --> 01:22:08,336 You're such an idiot. A terrible fool... 859 01:22:08,490 --> 01:22:10,371 You're an idiot. 860 01:22:11,677 --> 01:22:15,210 I hate you. 861 01:22:15,325 --> 01:22:19,664 You're horrible. I hate you. 862 01:24:25,761 --> 01:24:28,296 You're... 863 01:24:31,483 --> 01:24:34,094 You're... 864 01:24:39,815 --> 01:24:43,040 You're... completely okay. 865 01:24:45,575 --> 01:24:48,032 You're... 866 01:24:50,797 --> 01:24:53,447 You're a good person. 867 01:24:54,944 --> 01:24:58,170 I couldn't tell you before. 868 01:24:58,823 --> 01:25:00,858 Because... 869 01:25:02,087 --> 01:25:05,235 I felt miserable. 870 01:25:09,075 --> 01:25:11,571 My little girl. 871 01:25:14,375 --> 01:25:17,101 You have a good heart. 872 01:25:22,092 --> 01:25:24,550 You deserve... 873 01:25:26,009 --> 01:25:30,271 You deserve love. 874 01:25:34,072 --> 01:25:36,722 You can have it. 875 01:25:37,643 --> 01:25:42,021 You're amazing. You're... amazing. 876 01:25:44,670 --> 01:25:49,547 It's okay, that you need love. 877 01:25:52,196 --> 01:25:54,769 You're amazing. 878 01:26:00,489 --> 01:26:03,100 I love you. 879 01:26:08,475 --> 01:26:10,971 I love you. 880 01:28:17,529 --> 01:28:19,488 Hi! 881 01:28:20,102 --> 01:28:21,830 Hi! 882 01:28:21,984 --> 01:28:25,017 Darling! Come to me. 883 01:28:46,673 --> 01:28:47,747 Hi. 884 01:28:47,748 --> 01:28:49,015 Hi. 885 01:29:01,302 --> 01:29:02,762 Hi. 886 01:29:04,797 --> 01:29:07,523 You're completely stupid. 887 01:29:13,436 --> 01:29:16,124 You know you're stupid? 888 01:29:16,201 --> 01:29:18,773 Yeah, I know. 889 01:29:22,153 --> 01:29:25,876 You are always tired and you say that you have an important job in Oslo. 890 01:29:25,877 --> 01:29:29,870 But you have no job. You're nothing. 891 01:29:29,871 --> 01:29:32,520 You shouldn't have children at all. 892 01:29:32,521 --> 01:29:34,939 I want to move in with dad. It's much better there. 893 01:29:34,940 --> 01:29:38,433 He's kind. Not as terrible as you. 894 01:29:38,434 --> 01:29:41,468 That's okay if you want that. 895 01:29:41,660 --> 01:29:45,039 I understand you want it. 896 01:29:53,102 --> 01:29:55,752 - Mom. - Almo. 897 01:29:58,248 --> 01:30:00,820 My little girl. 898 01:30:04,660 --> 01:30:07,963 It's normal that you feel like that. 899 01:30:31,270 --> 01:30:35,494 The corner cafe is closed, so we have to find something else. 900 01:30:43,864 --> 01:30:45,208 There? 901 01:30:54,807 --> 01:30:56,113 Good morning. 902 01:31:02,908 --> 01:31:06,287 I'll just have fizzy water and coffee. Cappuccino. 903 01:31:06,288 --> 01:31:08,092 Me too. 904 01:31:13,621 --> 01:31:18,459 I don't really have much to say. You wanted to come down. 905 01:31:22,106 --> 01:31:26,369 But say what you need. I will listen. 906 01:31:46,834 --> 01:31:49,791 I might start crying but... 907 01:31:52,133 --> 01:31:56,088 But not because, I feel sad right now. 908 01:31:56,089 --> 01:32:00,773 And I don't want you to feel guilty, when I speak. 909 01:32:03,384 --> 01:32:06,839 I want you to know that if 910 01:32:06,840 --> 01:32:08,452 you want to leave, you can. 911 01:32:09,259 --> 01:32:12,292 You don't have to feel bad. 912 01:32:12,484 --> 01:32:16,824 If that's what you 913 01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:20,280 need, you should do it. 914 01:32:22,084 --> 01:32:27,768 You don't have to worry I can't handle it. 915 01:32:27,921 --> 01:32:30,302 Because I can. 916 01:32:33,451 --> 01:32:35,409 I can do it. 917 01:32:36,561 --> 01:32:41,899 I have realized lately what I was afraid of. 918 01:32:43,089 --> 01:32:47,121 I was very afraid that you would leave me. 919 01:32:48,696 --> 01:32:52,267 And it was so hard for me to say this. 920 01:32:52,497 --> 01:32:54,072 To you. 921 01:32:56,606 --> 01:33:00,715 I've been so afraid of being left by myself. 922 01:33:01,636 --> 01:33:05,592 A self that I hated so much. 923 01:33:13,885 --> 01:33:17,111 I just want to apologize to you. 924 01:33:17,418 --> 01:33:21,757 That I didn't believe, that you care about me. 925 01:33:21,987 --> 01:33:25,826 And for forcing you to feel guilty. 926 01:33:25,827 --> 01:33:28,823 That I criticized you. 927 01:33:30,743 --> 01:33:32,778 Held you too tight. 928 01:33:32,931 --> 01:33:36,733 It is vital to me... 929 01:33:37,539 --> 01:33:41,034 You are aware of this. 930 01:33:41,879 --> 01:33:47,715 In a certain way, What happened, was actually a gift. 931 01:33:51,516 --> 01:33:54,856 I would very much like to be together. 932 01:33:54,857 --> 01:33:57,775 But now I understand... 933 01:33:59,234 --> 01:34:02,191 I don't want that... 934 01:34:02,921 --> 01:34:06,761 I don't want that if you don't want it. 935 01:34:07,529 --> 01:34:10,409 If we are not together... 936 01:34:12,943 --> 01:34:16,514 It's okay too. 937 01:34:16,975 --> 01:34:20,700 Even so, I can live a good life. 938 01:34:22,006 --> 01:34:24,463 Without you. 939 01:34:27,190 --> 01:34:28,610 Thanks. 940 01:34:29,609 --> 01:34:31,222 You're welcome. 941 01:34:42,971 --> 01:34:46,926 So I will have to deal with my own problems. 942 01:34:47,426 --> 01:34:51,650 But I understand that both us are in this. 943 01:34:52,264 --> 01:34:56,948 And that I have to deal with my share. 944 01:34:56,949 --> 01:35:01,941 I also know I wasn't clear about my needs. 945 01:35:02,210 --> 01:35:07,048 I think it was scary for me to feel I needed anything. 946 01:35:15,610 --> 01:35:18,759 - I have to go. - Okay. 947 01:35:24,326 --> 01:35:26,400 Okay. 948 01:35:33,426 --> 01:35:35,499 - Bye. - Bye. 949 01:36:08,829 --> 01:36:10,019 Hi. 950 01:36:13,322 --> 01:36:14,474 Hi. 951 01:36:17,853 --> 01:36:20,234 How are you? 952 01:36:29,257 --> 01:36:34,095 It's scary to me. To accept the love you give me. 953 01:36:36,207 --> 01:36:38,549 I'm afraid of it. 954 01:36:39,433 --> 01:36:41,314 What are you afraid of? 955 01:36:43,157 --> 01:36:47,304 When you hug me... 956 01:36:47,305 --> 01:36:52,028 - I think you will leave me. - You think this? 957 01:36:53,487 --> 01:36:56,290 You think I'll leave you? 958 01:37:01,204 --> 01:37:02,625 Come. 959 01:37:06,850 --> 01:37:08,156 Come.