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Bronwyn? You here?

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I can't find my keys.

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Why is he still here? Where's Sylvia?

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I don't know.

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Been trying to reach her all morning.

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- Has he eaten?
- Uh, I ordered us some coffees

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from Balthazar and I
got him an eggs Benedict.

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- He wouldn't touch it.
- All right.

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Hmm.

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Hey, Bash? Bud?

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Hey, can you, um, can you try the bread?

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I don't like that.

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- Why not?
- It's bland.

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What... Do you want me to
put something on it for you?

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Spicy curry mango?

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What?

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Yeah? Okay.

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Keep eating, please.

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Mm.

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Oh, my God.

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Oh. How is that "slight pepper"?

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Could you take him?

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I have to help Simon prep
a presentation before 9:00.

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I... no, I... oh, shit,
that stuff is really spicy.

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Oh, my God.

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Fine. I already missed yoga.

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Mm.

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Hello?

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- Hey, Bash.
- Yes?

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I'll take you to school today.

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Really?

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Uh-huh.

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Uh-huh. Uh-huh.

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Eat, Bash.

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Uh-huh.

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- Of course.
- What is it?

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Of course.

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Sylvia died.

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W-What, what happened? How?

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They don't know.

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Mom, where's Sylvia?

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Oh, honey, I already told you,

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she is not gonna make it today.

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Is she gonna pick me up?

45
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No, honey, Mommy or
Daddy will pick you up.

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But I want Sylvia.

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I know, honey.

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Are you sad because you
missed your yoga class?

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Do you need an ocean breath?

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Oh, honey.

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Everything is gonna be okay.

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Hugs.

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- Mommy?
- Yes, Bash?

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Sylvia walks me to my class.

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Oh. Okay.

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Hey, how was your day?

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Mm, it was okay.

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How was yours?

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- Fine, under the circumstances.
- Mm-hmm.

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You know, I gave the
doorman that envelope

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that was addressed to Sylvia.

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Told him return it to sender.

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He said he has no idea
who left it at our door.

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- Strange.
- It's weird, right?

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How's Sebastian doing?

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Good. Playing with that
coding thing you got him.

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Hey, you know, his teacher asked me

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why we weren't at family
picture day, in front of him.

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What? I mean, we couldn't
have been the only parents.

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Right? I mean, seriously.

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It was ridiculous.

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So...

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how do you want to tell Bash?

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Yeah, yeah, I was thinking
about that, too. Um...

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Do we want to tell him?

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Absolutely.

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I mean, we don't want to lie to him.

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She was a really big part of his life.

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If we don't say anything,

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he's gonna think death is a bad thing.

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Well, it isn't the best thing.

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What did Dr. Lipschitz say
about teachable moments?

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You remember?

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Yeah, okay, I'll see you soon.

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All right. Bye.

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Bye.

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- Hey, Bash.
- Hey.

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- Hey, hey, hey.
- Hey.

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Hey, buddy.

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- What you playing?
- Wow.

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Look at this.

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What's this one?

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That... this is a Kosmocertops.

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- Whoa. I love it.
- Wow.

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So cool.

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Hey, Bash.

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You remember that old dog

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- we used to have when you were...
- Mm, no. Mm-mm, mm-mm.

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Well...

100
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you really love
dinosaurs, don't you, Bash?

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Uh, did you know

102
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that some things go extinct...

103
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- Yeah.
- Like dinosaurs

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and woolly mammoths.

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Like a meteor hit them?

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- Maybe.
- Mm-hmm.

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Yeah. Maybe.

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Or sometimes,

109
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they... might fall asleep

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and not wake up.

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Can that happen to me?

112
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- No. Mm-mm. No way.
- No. No.

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That only happens
when you're really old.

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Can that happen to you?

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- No. No, no, no, no.
- No, no, no. No.

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But you're both old.

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Sylvia died.

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Can she come back and say goodbye

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and then go back to being dead?

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I don't think so, Bash.

121
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But sometimes, when people die,

122
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they have a special ceremony
to celebrate their life,

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and it's called a funeral.

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Can we go to there?

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- We can...
- Maybe. Maybe.

126
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Me and Daddy just need
to talk about it first.

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O-Okay?

128
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Maybe it's that foam roller?

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I'll check.

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- Mm-hmm.
- Where did she go?

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Oh...

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Nobody knows, baby.

133
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Maybe Sylvia went back
to Trinidad and Tobago.

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I just never realised how many things

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she had lying around the house.

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I mean, bags...

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wigs, dresses.

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We'll contact her family.

139
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We should've hired somebody younger.

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Yeah, you know, hon?

141
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I think we should take him.

142
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No, that... it is, it
is too jarring for a kid

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- in kindergarten.
- Okay, listen.

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I thought about it.

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I think this could be
a real teachable moment.

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I mean, he said he wanted to see her.

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I think we should honor his wishes.

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You know, I was reading
about how we as Americans

149
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have commodified death to the point

150
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where it's become this,
like, foreign, scary thing.

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I mean, it used to be
that the living room...

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The living room, in your house...

153
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Used to be the death room.

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I mean, it's where you
would house the body

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of the dead person and people
would come and go for days

156
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just to, just to look
at-at the dead person.

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Ew.

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I'm gonna call her phone.

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Maybe we can return these
things to her family in person.

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I think her daughter said the
service starts at 10:00 a. m.

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I don't know. It was
hard to understand her.

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Maybe this next person

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can be a bit more...

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metropolitan.

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Mm-hmm.

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Sounds expensive.

167
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Sylvia wasn't cheap.

168
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No. Sylvia wasn't expensive.

169
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Babe, you know what would be so great?

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- Hmm?
- If Sebastian

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could become fluent in Mandarin.

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Look, you know how hard it is to
find a Chinese nanny right now.

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Why? No, you're just not
asking the right people.

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You don't know where to look.

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If you want him to be in
business, he needs to learn

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the language of busin...

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I'm scared.

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Oh, you were so quiet, Sebastian.

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I didn't, I didn't see you, baby.

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Sylvia sits in my room when I'm scared.

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Sometimes she rubs my back.

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In a circle.

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And then, she sits in the
rocking chair and sings

184
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the "Sweet T and T" song.

185
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What?

186
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Oh, um, well, I don't know that song.

187
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But I do know...

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We're all here and we are all safe.

189
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So you don't have to worry.

190
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I feel worried.

191
00:14:03,558 --> 00:14:05,596
Well, that is okay.

192
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You okay, Bash?

193
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Yep. We are out there.

194
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Hmm. Practically in the islands.

195
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Hi, guys. Hi.

196
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Uh, we're looking for
Sylvia Hosannah's funeral.

197
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Is it... Is this it?

198
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- Are you Miles?
- I am.

199
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Yeah, we met on the phone. I'm Khadija.

200
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- Sylvia's daughter.
- Oh, really nice to meet you.

201
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- Our condolences.
- Thank you so much.

202
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She was so much a
part of our son's life.

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- Oh, I know.
- Yeah.

204
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You know, we-we have

205
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some of her belongings
here from our apartment.

206
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- We want to make sure
- Oh.

207
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We get those to you today.

208
00:15:06,204 --> 00:15:08,321
Oh, yeah. Great, thank you so much.

209
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Cockroach.

210
00:15:09,390 --> 00:15:11,751
Richard. Stop it.

211
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Trust me, it's not as bad as it sounds.

212
00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,239
"Cockroach has no place at fowl party."

213
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A'A, and I bet you know what that means.

214
00:15:20,412 --> 00:15:22,784
You must be Sebastian.

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00:15:22,818 --> 00:15:25,527
Mommy used to call you
her little curry mouth

216
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because you love her
roti and ate it plenty.

217
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I heard so much about you, all of you.

218
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So all are staying for
the wake later, right?

219
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Yes, we is family now, and you
have to stay for the wake later.

220
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Right? And you'll have plenty food.

221
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It will have pelau, corn soup,

222
00:15:43,705 --> 00:15:46,861
fish broth, doubles, roti.

223
00:15:47,700 --> 00:15:50,277
And as Mommy used to say,
it's better belly bust...

224
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Than good food waste.

225
00:15:53,578 --> 00:15:55,520
- You know me heart.
- A'A.

226
00:15:55,545 --> 00:15:58,790
But it's a little Trini all here?

227
00:15:58,823 --> 00:16:00,748
- Wow...
- Oh, my gosh.

228
00:16:00,773 --> 00:16:03,933
Thank you so much, Sebastian.
You made me laugh today.

229
00:16:03,966 --> 00:16:06,304
- Thank you.
- That's great.

230
00:16:06,337 --> 00:16:09,410
Um, so c... am I okay here?

231
00:16:09,444 --> 00:16:11,086
- Can I pull...
- Oh, just follow me,

232
00:16:11,111 --> 00:16:12,425
I'll show you where to park.

233
00:16:12,450 --> 00:16:14,106
Oh, I'll take Sebastian
out and wait for you.

234
00:16:14,130 --> 00:16:15,269
Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

235
00:16:23,773 --> 00:16:25,200
Great.

236
00:16:26,035 --> 00:16:27,037
Um...

237
00:16:28,983 --> 00:16:32,212
Am I gonna be able to,
uh, like, get out of here?

238
00:16:32,237 --> 00:16:34,303
Oh, yeah, yeah, just rest
the car keys on the hood

239
00:16:34,327 --> 00:16:35,821
and Richie will take care of you.

240
00:16:36,058 --> 00:16:38,697
- Oh, okay.
- Mm-hmm. Richie.

241
00:16:41,608 --> 00:16:43,813
All right. Okay.

242
00:16:44,173 --> 00:16:45,594
Hi, Richie.

243
00:16:47,009 --> 00:16:48,571
Hi, Richie.

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00:16:49,973 --> 00:16:52,779
- Hi... okay.
- It's fine. It's fine.

245
00:17:05,101 --> 00:17:07,493
- Thank you.
- Thank you. I'm good, thanks.

246
00:17:09,898 --> 00:17:12,636
Okay. Hey.

247
00:17:12,669 --> 00:17:14,573
Take my hand.

248
00:17:29,403 --> 00:17:32,009
I'm gonna lift you up
so you can see, okay?

249
00:17:41,061 --> 00:17:42,597
Okay?

250
00:17:45,873 --> 00:17:49,012
Good job, buddy. Let's go find a seat.

251
00:17:54,687 --> 00:17:57,393
Excuse me. Can we take these? Thank you.

252
00:17:57,426 --> 00:17:59,530
- Thank you.
- You sit here.

253
00:18:00,009 --> 00:18:02,046
I'll sit next to you.

254
00:18:04,603 --> 00:18:06,440
Good job, bud.

255
00:18:11,628 --> 00:18:14,393
Hey, y'all must be the Warners.

256
00:18:14,897 --> 00:18:16,664
Sylvia did love your family.

257
00:18:16,698 --> 00:18:18,501
She really did.

258
00:18:18,819 --> 00:18:20,572
I'm glad you're all here.

259
00:18:20,606 --> 00:18:22,694
My condolences and thank you.

260
00:18:22,968 --> 00:18:24,413
You're her brother?

261
00:18:24,447 --> 00:18:26,451
Nah, her comparé.

262
00:18:26,484 --> 00:18:27,821
Oh.

263
00:18:27,854 --> 00:18:29,457
My name is Devon.

264
00:18:29,490 --> 00:18:31,661
Now, if you guys are in the market

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for a new childcare service,

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I'd like to offer my assistance.

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I-I've been a Little League coach,

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spiritual therapist

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and I install televisions when I can.

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- Wow.
- Just hit my line.

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You don't have shame?

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Know your place.

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Hey. Psst.

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My name's Curtis.

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Hi. Miles. Hi.

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Uh, this is my wife and son.

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Yeah, man, nice to meet you.

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- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.

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So, how you know Sylvia?

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Well, Sylvia used to care for Sebastian.

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Oh, serious?

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You know, Sylvia was
my babysitter, too. Ha.

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- Wow.
- Yeah, it's a sad day.

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But she'd be happy
we're all here, you know.

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Yeah.

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So, um, you grow up in Trinidad?

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Or Jamaica?

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No, it's Trinidad and Tobago.

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And no.

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I'm from Tribeca.

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Oh. Your-your accent is so... strong.

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Yeah, everyone says that.

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Sorry I'm late.

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As they say, any time is Trini time, eh?

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Let the church say "amen."

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Amen.

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Welcome to the homegoing service

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of the beloved Sylvia Lucille Hosannah.

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Bow your head and close your eyes.

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Psalm 34:18 says,

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"God is close to the brokenhearted...

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Yes.

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And loves those who
are crushed in spirit."

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- Yes.
- That mean,

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even if you may not feel his presence,

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the Lord is close to you.

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- Yes.
- Yes, Lord.

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And if the Lord is close to you,

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Sylvia is close to you, amen?

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- Amen.
- Let the church say amen, amen?

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- Amen.
- Let the church say "amen."

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Amen.

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- Amen.
- We have come here today

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to celebrate the marvelous life

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of Ms. Sylvia Lucille Hosannah.

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- Oh, yeah.
- Born in Trinidad

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on June the 8th in the year 1957.

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She is survived by
her beautiful children,

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Princess Lee, Khadija
Lee, her son Steven Lee Jr.

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And her grandchildren
Wesley and Zachary.

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She was a passionate
childcare professional.

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- Yes! Yes!
- Yes.

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A nanny and nurse to many, many children

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right here in New York City.

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And she always loved children, eh?

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But she didn't just take
care of children, right?

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No.

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Before settling down and
having children of her own,

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she was a ballet dancer
with the Alvin Ailey

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dance company in Harlem
for several years.

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Yes.

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Mixing Trinidadian and
traditional African dance,

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she brought a confidence and a freshness

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to her rich and vibrant dance milieu.

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- Yes.
- Oh, yeah.

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Sylvia was the first in her
family to move from Trinidad

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to New York and always
sent money to her family.

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She tried her best to get
all her brothers and sisters

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to the U. S. as well.

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Including her sister Nancy,

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whose son Oswald is doing his thing

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as wide receiver for the Patriots!

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Except last week.

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Sad as he lost me some money, boy.

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Oswald James was related to our nanny?

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- Yeah, I heard.
- She will be extremely missed.

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God deals with death as
he knows it to be true.

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Isaiah 41:10 says,

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"Fear not, for I am with you.

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- Yes.
- Yes.

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"Be not dismayed,

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- "for I am your God.
- Yes.

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- "I will strengthen you.
- Yes.

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- "I will help you.
- Yes.

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"I will uphold you
with my righteous hand!

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Yes.

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With my righteous hand."

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Yes.

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And she is upheld

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with His righteous hand.

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And she is with God, sitting where?

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- At the right...
- At the right hand of the Father.

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- May she rest in peace.
- What was that?

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Uh, nothing. Nothing.

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And may God bless her sweet, sweet soul.

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All right, that done.

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Now, as per the deceased
Mrs. Hosannah's wishes,

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we are asked to celebrate her life.

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I think one thing we
can all say about Sylvia,

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is that she believed in tradition...

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but she was not at all traditional.

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This is true.

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She asked that there be limbo dance,

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in tribute to Julia Edwards,

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before being taken to the burial site.

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We have some students and alumni here

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from the Hillcrest High School

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after-school dance program...
Started by Sylvia, by the way...

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To help us fulfill this
ask of Mrs. Hosannah.

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We will also be playing one
of Sylvia's favorite songs,

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- "Trini 2 De Bone."
- Yes!

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So, if all you could please
join us in remembering Sylvia

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in the way that she
wanted to be remembered.

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Yes. Amen. Amen.

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There we go, now.

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All yah!

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Stop all of this bacchanal. Stop it!

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How-how she reach up there?

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- Here we go.
- Everyone here

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- loved this woman.
- Princess!

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I've heard about her
sacrifices, her selflessness,

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but who do you think
she sacrificed, hmm?

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To take care of those children, hmm?

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She did the best she could, Princess.

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Yeah?

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Where was she when
we needed her, Steven?

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Where was she when
you got jumped uptown,

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and I couldn't find you for a whole day?

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Where was she when they
broke into our house

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and stole my laptop?

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Where was she?

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Where was she at your finals, Steven?

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She was providing for us.

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She was with other people's children.

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She should've been
taking care of her own!

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That's enough, Princess. Stop.

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I needed you, Mommy.

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And where were you?

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Where were you? Huh, Mama?

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You've always been crazy, Princess!

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Hey, but what you really doing here?

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- A'A?
- A'A?

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Whoa.

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It's a church! Stop!

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I'm coming with you!

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Stop it! Stop!

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Worldstar! Worldstar!
There's a fight going down...

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Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey! Hey!

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00:26:48,888 --> 00:26:53,166
Hey! You all need to
calm down right now!

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Look, you're scaring the white people.

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Uh... No, no, no, no.

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No, uh...

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We just have to go.

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Hey, small man. Are we scaring you?

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It's okay.

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We're just sad.

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This... is how we're sad.

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- You okay, Bash?
- Yes.

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Well, if you want to
sleep with us, you can.

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I'm okay.

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Okay. All right.

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Well...

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Well, good night.

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I love you.

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Good night. I love you, Dad.

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Good night, Sylvia.

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Wow.

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Oh, my gosh.

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Hey, hon, you know the
origin of the limbo dance?

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It's fascinating.

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I mean, apparently,

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slaves would do it to
mimic going down in the hold

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- of a slave ship.
- Did we do the right thing?

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What?

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Of course we did.

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Well, I just...

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I mean, people were screaming.

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- And-and the way that that woman...
- All right, that...

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was yelling at her mother.

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I just, I never... want
Sebastian to feel that way.

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- Like we weren't there for him.
- No.

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We were there for him
today, when he needed us.

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We were there for him.
We are there for him.

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Look, I know Sebastian, and I know

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that he can handle what he saw today.

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I know he'll be fine.

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You know, when I was putting
Sebastian to bed tonight,

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I asked him, "What do you
want to be when you grow up?"

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and he said, "I want to play
steelpan like Uncle Samuel."

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I don't even...

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Honey, wha... U-Uncle Samuel?

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I don't know what that
is. Who's Uncle Samuel?

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- I don't know.
- Was he there today?

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I don't know.

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