1 00:00:06,008 --> 00:00:08,427 Okay, we're ready. You can come down. 2 00:00:08,886 --> 00:00:10,179 Okay. 3 00:00:11,764 --> 00:00:13,182 Where are you? 4 00:00:16,811 --> 00:00:20,606 - Batman and Robin! - You notice anything different about us? 5 00:00:21,482 --> 00:00:23,484 You want to put on this one? 6 00:00:24,485 --> 00:00:28,197 - It's Batman's mommy. - Cute. 7 00:00:29,448 --> 00:00:31,075 I don't celebrate Halloween. 8 00:00:31,158 --> 00:00:32,993 - What? - I don't celebrate Halloween. 9 00:00:33,077 --> 00:00:35,162 - You don't celebrate Halloween? - No. 10 00:00:35,246 --> 00:00:36,789 Was there a reason? 11 00:00:38,708 --> 00:00:42,002 Because it's the highest satanic holiday of the year. 12 00:00:42,503 --> 00:00:46,340 So, the Satanists do sacrifices on this day. 13 00:00:46,424 --> 00:00:47,925 - There's sacrifices? - Yes. 14 00:00:48,008 --> 00:00:50,261 I thought it was just going door to door for candy. 15 00:00:50,344 --> 00:00:53,514 - Did you want to put on this? - No. 16 00:00:53,597 --> 00:00:57,351 - Mommy isn't gonna put on a costume. - Why? 17 00:00:58,394 --> 00:01:00,646 Mommy doesn't celebrate Halloween. 18 00:01:01,814 --> 00:01:05,901 I guess there's a lot of ghosts and that's scary for Mommy, maybe. 19 00:01:06,861 --> 00:01:08,070 Yeah. 20 00:01:08,154 --> 00:01:10,114 I've never seen that celebrated anywhere. 21 00:01:10,197 --> 00:01:12,783 Because you won't see it because it's underground. 22 00:01:13,117 --> 00:01:14,618 But where does it happen? 23 00:01:14,702 --> 00:01:16,829 It happens at places like Bohemian Grove 24 00:01:16,912 --> 00:01:18,914 and lots of different places. 25 00:01:18,998 --> 00:01:20,875 Have you ever heard of Satanists? 26 00:01:21,292 --> 00:01:24,003 - Yes. - You should Google the origins. 27 00:01:24,545 --> 00:01:26,630 - I saw another Batman mask. - Okay, I had no idea. 28 00:01:27,089 --> 00:01:29,508 Nathan, where have you been? 29 00:01:30,259 --> 00:01:32,136 I thought it was just trick or treating, really. 30 00:01:32,219 --> 00:01:33,721 I didn't think it was like… 31 00:01:33,804 --> 00:01:36,348 - There was a… - Not everything is make-believe. 32 00:01:36,432 --> 00:01:37,766 Some things are real. 33 00:01:39,852 --> 00:01:41,937 You have to open your eyes to reality. 34 00:01:51,614 --> 00:01:55,409 I had been a father for two days now, and I was still getting my bearings. 35 00:01:57,536 --> 00:02:00,206 Angela had such a grand vision for her future life, 36 00:02:00,915 --> 00:02:04,251 and I was starting to understand what it meant to be a part of it. 37 00:02:07,630 --> 00:02:09,840 She saw herself living as a homesteader, 38 00:02:09,924 --> 00:02:12,676 which she told me was a lifestyle of self-sufficiency. 39 00:02:13,052 --> 00:02:18,307 Leafy greens. Root veggies. And some flowers. 40 00:02:18,390 --> 00:02:20,100 - The tractor. - Flowers. 41 00:02:20,517 --> 00:02:22,728 That meant there was a lot to do in the farm. 42 00:02:23,771 --> 00:02:26,941 But I noticed it was mainly me doing it while she was in the house 43 00:02:27,024 --> 00:02:29,360 raising our now three-year-old son. 44 00:02:29,860 --> 00:02:32,029 The water need to be evenly distributed. 45 00:02:32,696 --> 00:02:35,157 - You can run a line or run a hose. - Okay. 46 00:02:35,699 --> 00:02:38,035 And make sure they get down to the roots. 47 00:02:38,118 --> 00:02:39,411 Okay. 48 00:02:39,495 --> 00:02:40,996 I'm not much of a gardener, 49 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,874 and I definitely don't know anything about irrigation, 50 00:02:44,583 --> 00:02:47,336 but Angela seemed to prefer being on childcare duty… 51 00:02:47,795 --> 00:02:50,339 - Thank you, Adam. - …which made sense, 52 00:02:50,881 --> 00:02:52,216 She was good at it. 53 00:02:52,299 --> 00:02:53,509 Hello. 54 00:02:53,592 --> 00:02:56,095 - Here are the eggs from the coop. - Oh, nice. 55 00:02:56,512 --> 00:02:59,682 - Hey, Adam. - Hey. Who's that? 56 00:03:03,811 --> 00:03:08,148 But for this rehearsal to function, I needed to feel like a real family. 57 00:03:10,901 --> 00:03:13,696 I just hoped that I could make that happen with everything else 58 00:03:13,779 --> 00:03:15,030 I had going on. 59 00:03:17,908 --> 00:03:19,785 This is where he, you know, everyday, 60 00:03:19,868 --> 00:03:22,496 I'm wearing the necklace like this and he's in this urn. 61 00:03:22,579 --> 00:03:24,832 - These his ashes? - Yeah, his ashes right in here. 62 00:03:24,915 --> 00:03:26,667 Both of my grandpas are here. 63 00:03:26,750 --> 00:03:28,419 What's that other thing on the necklace? 64 00:03:28,502 --> 00:03:30,796 - That's the Punisher emblem. - What's that about? 65 00:03:30,879 --> 00:03:34,258 I like the Punisher just because he takes the law into his own hands 66 00:03:34,341 --> 00:03:38,220 to, you know, punish the people that wronged him. 67 00:03:39,221 --> 00:03:41,348 I had a number of rehearsals already lined up 68 00:03:41,432 --> 00:03:42,933 when I moved into the house. 69 00:03:43,434 --> 00:03:45,227 Which meant I was now having to balance 70 00:03:45,310 --> 00:03:47,187 my time between work and family. 71 00:03:47,521 --> 00:03:49,606 - Nice to meet you, Patrick. - He's an actor, 72 00:03:49,690 --> 00:03:51,775 - he'll be playing your brother. - Okay, cool. 73 00:03:51,859 --> 00:03:55,320 This guy I met named Patrick had an unresolved issue with his brother, 74 00:03:55,404 --> 00:03:58,699 who is the executor of their late grandfather's will. 75 00:03:59,032 --> 00:04:00,617 You know, my grandpa in the will, he'd stated, 76 00:04:00,701 --> 00:04:02,870 if I'm going gonna be dating a gold digger, 77 00:04:02,953 --> 00:04:05,080 that I shouldn't be allowed my money to protect it. 78 00:04:05,164 --> 00:04:06,457 - It said in the will? - Yeah. 79 00:04:06,540 --> 00:04:08,167 - You can't date a gold digger? - Yeah. 80 00:04:08,250 --> 00:04:11,128 And my brother considers all the girls I've dated recently, 81 00:04:11,211 --> 00:04:14,590 that they're a gold digger out for money. 82 00:04:14,965 --> 00:04:16,467 Can I get the Caniac Combo? 83 00:04:16,842 --> 00:04:18,802 Patrick wanted to change his brother's mind 84 00:04:18,886 --> 00:04:20,679 about his girlfriend being a gold digger 85 00:04:20,762 --> 00:04:23,307 at a Raising Cane's Chicken Finger restaurant. 86 00:04:23,807 --> 00:04:25,392 A place their grandpa used to take them 87 00:04:25,476 --> 00:04:28,187 as an annual family tradition when he was alive. 88 00:04:28,854 --> 00:04:32,107 He said if you are with somebody that can't be trusted with money, 89 00:04:32,191 --> 00:04:33,901 then I'm not supposed to give it to you. 90 00:04:33,984 --> 00:04:36,236 And as long as you're with Nes, I'm not giving it to you. 91 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,864 A gold digger, but she's not. 92 00:04:38,947 --> 00:04:41,033 She's a penny pincher. She's a Jew about it. 93 00:04:41,116 --> 00:04:44,077 And you know how the Jews are 'bout that kind of thing. 94 00:04:44,161 --> 00:04:47,414 She just penny pinches and she's not one to hurt me in that regard. 95 00:04:47,498 --> 00:04:49,583 I'm trying to just calibrate, because to me it's like, 96 00:04:49,666 --> 00:04:51,710 "Oh, that's an anti-Semitic stereotype." 97 00:04:52,169 --> 00:04:53,420 I got you. 98 00:04:53,504 --> 00:04:56,965 It is a personal conversation with you and your brother 99 00:04:57,049 --> 00:04:59,384 and I do want you to be yourself. 100 00:04:59,927 --> 00:05:01,595 My brother would say a similar thing. 101 00:05:01,678 --> 00:05:03,096 - I mean… - It would work? 102 00:05:03,180 --> 00:05:05,807 It's like, "Oh, you know, don't be so Jewish like to me on things." 103 00:05:05,891 --> 00:05:07,768 Yeah, I mean if that's how you communicate. 104 00:05:07,851 --> 00:05:11,521 I don't want you to use language that wouldn't be effective, so… 105 00:05:11,605 --> 00:05:12,898 Yeah, then… 106 00:05:13,232 --> 00:05:15,943 Patrick's rehearsal presented some fascinating dilemmas, 107 00:05:16,026 --> 00:05:19,738 that I saw as an opportunity to advance the art of rehearsing. 108 00:05:19,821 --> 00:05:25,202 At what point in the conversation would you wanna say Nessa's a Jew? 109 00:05:25,869 --> 00:05:27,746 The biggest challenge was that he couldn't seem 110 00:05:27,829 --> 00:05:31,667 to follow any coherent strategy, and I couldn't figure out why. 111 00:05:32,334 --> 00:05:34,795 He's an air traffic controller… I mean, he needs logic, 112 00:05:34,878 --> 00:05:37,130 - He keeps planes from crashing. - Yeah. 113 00:05:37,214 --> 00:05:39,967 I don't know how much that argument would just… 114 00:05:41,051 --> 00:05:43,178 An arm wrestle's gonna work with him or… 115 00:05:43,512 --> 00:05:45,555 I get what you're saying. 116 00:05:45,973 --> 00:05:48,267 On my first day with him, I stayed pretty late. 117 00:05:48,767 --> 00:05:52,062 - And when I got home, - Adam was already in bed. 118 00:05:52,145 --> 00:05:53,272 There you go. 119 00:05:53,355 --> 00:05:55,816 You just did it when you moved the small hand under the big hand. 120 00:05:55,899 --> 00:05:58,318 And by the time Angela finished her bedtime story, 121 00:05:58,944 --> 00:06:00,612 it was too late for mine. 122 00:06:17,004 --> 00:06:19,381 This was actually a book that Adam picked off the shelf 123 00:06:19,464 --> 00:06:21,466 from the book up. The shelf upstairs. 124 00:06:21,550 --> 00:06:22,759 Really? 125 00:06:22,843 --> 00:06:24,928 Yep, he just picked this one off the shelf. 126 00:06:25,262 --> 00:06:26,722 And you've been reading it? 127 00:06:26,805 --> 00:06:30,058 Yeah, I've just been looking at the different kinds of flowers in there. 128 00:06:30,642 --> 00:06:31,768 Cool. 129 00:06:33,186 --> 00:06:35,147 Does he ever ask about me or anything? 130 00:06:40,110 --> 00:06:41,695 I don't think so. 131 00:06:42,362 --> 00:06:44,239 Not that I could think at the moment. 132 00:07:32,412 --> 00:07:33,955 Good morning. 133 00:07:34,581 --> 00:07:36,333 - How are you? - I'm great, thank you. 134 00:07:36,791 --> 00:07:38,251 How much? 135 00:07:38,335 --> 00:07:39,669 - Is that enough? - Yep. 136 00:07:40,003 --> 00:07:42,380 I told Angela that I would take Adam for the day 137 00:07:42,464 --> 00:07:44,883 to give her time to work on her Etsy business 138 00:07:44,966 --> 00:07:46,801 selling home-made skin creams. 139 00:07:47,385 --> 00:07:49,471 - Hey, here's your tea. - Hi. 140 00:07:49,554 --> 00:07:52,724 - Oh, thanks. - And here's some cereal… 141 00:07:53,099 --> 00:07:56,061 - Thank you. Thanks. - For breakfast. Okay. 142 00:07:56,144 --> 00:07:57,687 Do you know if it's gluten-free? 143 00:07:59,523 --> 00:08:02,067 There are several components to a good rehearsal. 144 00:08:02,484 --> 00:08:05,403 So far, my focus has been on practicing the actions 145 00:08:05,487 --> 00:08:09,449 and the words that you're likely to encounter in your real life. 146 00:08:10,283 --> 00:08:11,826 This is where Daddy works. 147 00:08:12,661 --> 00:08:14,788 - This is Adam, he's my son. - Hey, Adam. 148 00:08:14,871 --> 00:08:17,832 She's not doing that at all, dude. You don't know her. 149 00:08:17,916 --> 00:08:19,834 - She is a gold digger. - Dude, she's not. 150 00:08:19,918 --> 00:08:23,505 But I've recently come to realize I've been neglecting one key component 151 00:08:23,588 --> 00:08:27,509 of every crucial life event. Feelings. 152 00:08:29,052 --> 00:08:32,430 When I did my rehearsal with Core, he was able to master the verbal 153 00:08:32,514 --> 00:08:35,225 and physical choreography of his situation. 154 00:08:36,059 --> 00:08:38,228 I've decided to give you a little buzz. 155 00:08:38,812 --> 00:08:41,773 But when it came time to confess his lie at the real bar 156 00:08:41,856 --> 00:08:45,235 to his real friend, he completely froze. 157 00:08:45,986 --> 00:08:49,114 It's like you could see the adrenaline running through his veins. 158 00:08:49,489 --> 00:08:52,367 The pressure of the real situation finally hit him. 159 00:08:53,243 --> 00:08:56,454 And this is something that never happened once in his rehearsal. 160 00:08:57,497 --> 00:09:01,167 Which means, I failed to prepare him for how he would feel. 161 00:09:02,752 --> 00:09:05,922 Me spending time with Adam has only confirmed this theory. 162 00:09:06,589 --> 00:09:11,636 I'm acting like a dad, but I definitely don't feel like one, that's a problem. 163 00:09:12,929 --> 00:09:14,639 So, how can I prepare Patrick 164 00:09:14,723 --> 00:09:17,100 for the feeling of sitting across from someone 165 00:09:17,183 --> 00:09:20,145 who's withholding an inheritance he feels entitled to? 166 00:09:21,438 --> 00:09:25,275 Well, there's a part of this rehearsal I've been keeping secret from Patrick 167 00:09:25,358 --> 00:09:27,277 to accomplish exactly this. 168 00:09:27,819 --> 00:09:29,070 Hey, Pat. 169 00:09:29,154 --> 00:09:32,073 Hey, man. My family barn's not too far from here. 170 00:09:32,157 --> 00:09:34,367 And there's a generator that I have to actually move 171 00:09:34,451 --> 00:09:35,827 for the day out of that barn. 172 00:09:35,910 --> 00:09:37,287 Yeah, I can help you move it. 173 00:09:37,370 --> 00:09:38,872 After today's rehearsal, 174 00:09:38,955 --> 00:09:41,708 I had the actor playing Patrick's brother ask Patrick 175 00:09:41,791 --> 00:09:46,504 out of character to help him move an old generator at his grandpa's barn. 176 00:09:46,838 --> 00:09:48,173 - I'm Johnny. Patrick. - Patrick. 177 00:09:48,256 --> 00:09:49,758 - Nice to meet you. - Pleased to meet you. 178 00:09:49,841 --> 00:09:51,009 Thanks for coming out. 179 00:09:51,092 --> 00:09:53,219 But this is not the actor's real grandpa. 180 00:09:53,303 --> 00:09:57,557 This grandpa is also an actor, but Patrick doesn't know that. 181 00:09:58,058 --> 00:10:01,144 - What's all this? - They're filming me. 182 00:10:01,227 --> 00:10:03,021 I'm not in a documentary. 183 00:10:03,104 --> 00:10:05,982 They're not filming you, Grandpa, they're just filming… 184 00:10:06,316 --> 00:10:08,485 - All right. Nice. - Yeah. 185 00:10:12,322 --> 00:10:13,531 - That's it, yeah? - Yeah. 186 00:10:14,073 --> 00:10:17,660 - I got one more thing. - It's date night, I can't stick around. 187 00:10:17,744 --> 00:10:19,329 - "Date night"? - Yeah. 188 00:10:19,412 --> 00:10:21,581 - I have to go. I promise… - I'll help you out. 189 00:10:22,081 --> 00:10:23,416 - Are you sure? - Yeah. I can help out. 190 00:10:23,500 --> 00:10:26,336 Dude, that's not his job to do. It's your job! 191 00:10:26,711 --> 00:10:29,631 I hope she fuckin' leaves you. You can help me with this? 192 00:10:29,714 --> 00:10:31,466 Yeah, I can help you out. What do you need? 193 00:10:31,549 --> 00:10:34,469 And that's when the grandpa reveals that beneath the floorboards 194 00:10:34,552 --> 00:10:37,013 is a map leading to some gold that he had buried 195 00:10:37,096 --> 00:10:39,808 on his property years ago to avoid taxes. 196 00:10:40,183 --> 00:10:42,602 There's just a lot of valuable shit in there and… 197 00:10:42,685 --> 00:10:43,770 Yeah. 198 00:10:43,853 --> 00:10:45,063 I need to get it out. 199 00:10:45,605 --> 00:10:47,857 I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. 200 00:10:48,900 --> 00:10:50,944 Over the next several hours I needed Patrick 201 00:10:51,444 --> 00:10:53,780 and this old man to form a bond. 202 00:10:53,863 --> 00:10:56,866 I used to help my grandpa all the time whenever he needed something. 203 00:10:56,950 --> 00:10:59,577 My younger brother, he never really kinda would do it. 204 00:10:59,661 --> 00:11:01,079 He was always joking around. 205 00:11:01,162 --> 00:11:03,164 - But you were there. - Yup, I was there, cause… 206 00:11:03,248 --> 00:11:04,916 - That's the way I was raised too. - Yeah. 207 00:11:05,375 --> 00:11:07,961 A bond strong enough that will result in this grandpa 208 00:11:08,044 --> 00:11:10,004 including Patrick in his will. 209 00:11:10,713 --> 00:11:13,800 Just days before he drops dead of natural causes. 210 00:11:15,260 --> 00:11:17,929 So then, the only thing standing in the way of Patrick 211 00:11:18,012 --> 00:11:20,848 getting this inheritance is the will's executor, 212 00:11:21,182 --> 00:11:23,685 the actor playing Patrick's brother. 213 00:11:24,435 --> 00:11:27,063 Giving Patrick's rehearsal the exact same stakes, 214 00:11:27,605 --> 00:11:31,359 and hopefully, the exact same feelings as his reality. 215 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:41,035 But before meeting up with them, I had to take Adam home for his nap. 216 00:11:46,874 --> 00:11:48,501 Yeah, I was just thinking… 217 00:11:49,043 --> 00:11:51,504 I don't know if you'd be open to a part-time nanny maybe 218 00:11:51,587 --> 00:11:54,215 - and that would allow us to… - Oh, a part-time nanny? 219 00:11:54,299 --> 00:11:56,634 Yeah. I would be open to that. 220 00:11:56,718 --> 00:11:58,678 That way you could do your work and I could do mine. 221 00:11:58,761 --> 00:12:00,471 Yeah, I think that's a good idea. 222 00:12:01,180 --> 00:12:03,099 If we can find a person we trust. 223 00:12:03,641 --> 00:12:05,810 Yeah, okay. I'll see you later though. 224 00:12:05,893 --> 00:12:07,979 - Okay, see you later, Nathan. - Yeah. Okay. 225 00:12:08,062 --> 00:12:09,605 - Thanks. - Thanks. 226 00:12:11,024 --> 00:12:13,776 - You're good to put Adam to bed? - Yes. 227 00:12:19,991 --> 00:12:23,536 Patrick and the old man had been searching for the gold for hours. 228 00:12:24,537 --> 00:12:28,374 Two men in the woods building trust as only men do. 229 00:12:29,125 --> 00:12:32,211 Like, I'm pretty loyal to the things that, like, I like. 230 00:12:32,295 --> 00:12:35,173 Kind of like, if it's food, I like pizza. And then I like chicken. 231 00:12:35,256 --> 00:12:37,675 - And then I like steak. - What kind of pizza you like? 232 00:12:37,759 --> 00:12:40,178 - Cheese pizza, simple and plain. - That's it, huh? 233 00:12:40,261 --> 00:12:43,347 I mean I like pepperoni but it gives heartburn like a motherfucker. 234 00:12:43,431 --> 00:12:45,600 But before finding it, there was one more thing 235 00:12:45,683 --> 00:12:47,685 I hoped would cement their bond. 236 00:12:48,061 --> 00:12:50,271 Hold on a minute, I got a little issue here. 237 00:12:51,314 --> 00:12:52,690 No worries. 238 00:12:52,774 --> 00:12:55,485 Patrick frequently cited changing his grandpa's diaper 239 00:12:55,568 --> 00:12:59,947 in his final years as evidence of why he deserved his inheritance. 240 00:13:00,406 --> 00:13:03,409 I fucking changed his diapers. You… you never changed his diapers. 241 00:13:03,493 --> 00:13:04,869 Whenever he went to the bathroom, 242 00:13:04,952 --> 00:13:07,872 "I need to change my underwear," you know, "D'you have boxers?" 243 00:13:07,955 --> 00:13:12,085 I'm over there wiping grandpa's ass, while we were watching Dragon Ball Z. 244 00:13:12,794 --> 00:13:15,963 I wanted Patrick to have a similar experience with this grandpa. 245 00:13:17,090 --> 00:13:18,299 - Patrick. - Yup. 246 00:13:18,716 --> 00:13:20,384 This is a little embarrassing… 247 00:13:20,468 --> 00:13:22,512 I wonder if you could give me a hand here. 248 00:13:22,595 --> 00:13:26,099 What's that? So, friggin'… 249 00:13:28,810 --> 00:13:30,311 - Sorry, man. - No worries. 250 00:13:30,812 --> 00:13:32,772 All right, is there any mess back there? 251 00:13:32,855 --> 00:13:34,941 I need a cleanup on aisle ten or anything? 252 00:13:36,275 --> 00:13:39,779 - There you go. - Thank you. 253 00:13:43,991 --> 00:13:45,618 It was a beautiful moment, 254 00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:50,581 but I couldn't help but feel sad knowing that this old man would soon be dead, 255 00:13:51,374 --> 00:13:54,043 and I was the one who would have to break the news. 256 00:13:57,797 --> 00:14:00,466 Fuck… fuck me to tears! 257 00:14:05,930 --> 00:14:07,265 Hold that for me. 258 00:14:07,974 --> 00:14:10,184 - That's awesome. - Yeah, you see them bad boys? 259 00:14:10,268 --> 00:14:11,978 Yeah, very cool. 260 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:14,814 - That's not silver, baby. That's gold. - Nice. 261 00:14:15,940 --> 00:14:17,942 Every one of them fuckers is worth somewhere 262 00:14:18,025 --> 00:14:19,902 - around two grand right now. - Nice. 263 00:14:20,444 --> 00:14:22,822 I don't really got a lot to spend it on, but… 264 00:14:23,698 --> 00:14:25,491 I want you to have some of this. 265 00:14:26,158 --> 00:14:28,619 Well that'd be cool, but I mean I don't, you know… 266 00:14:28,703 --> 00:14:31,664 You've done more for me you've been kinder to me today 267 00:14:31,747 --> 00:14:35,001 than my own grandson has for the last year. 268 00:14:36,252 --> 00:14:38,296 I can't take it with me. 269 00:14:39,338 --> 00:14:42,842 - That's true. - Well, shit. 270 00:14:44,468 --> 00:14:46,012 Good working with you, sir. 271 00:14:46,762 --> 00:14:50,266 So I'm just gonna get this all appraised and I'll call you in a week. 272 00:14:50,349 --> 00:14:51,767 Yeah. Thank you. 273 00:14:53,644 --> 00:14:55,521 You earned it and a lot more 274 00:14:55,855 --> 00:14:57,440 and you're gonna get a lot more. 275 00:15:10,244 --> 00:15:16,959 So, we just got a call from Isaac, the actor playing Patrick's brother, 276 00:15:17,043 --> 00:15:20,504 and sadly, he's had a death in the family, 277 00:15:20,588 --> 00:15:24,800 so we're gonna take the day off from rehearsing today. 278 00:15:25,551 --> 00:15:26,635 Cool. 279 00:15:27,595 --> 00:15:30,723 Let's go home and… how about we spend some time 280 00:15:30,806 --> 00:15:34,685 with our families and cherish every moment 281 00:15:35,227 --> 00:15:38,230 because you never know when it's gonna be your last. 282 00:15:39,648 --> 00:15:41,317 - Sorry about that. Yeah. - No worries. 283 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:43,194 - Pick up on a different day? - Yeah, definitely. 284 00:15:52,286 --> 00:15:54,455 Oh, Hermie! Good to see you. 285 00:15:54,872 --> 00:15:58,084 Hey, I heard what you said. Have you ever lied? 286 00:15:59,126 --> 00:16:02,338 Yeah, there have been times that I didn't tell the whole truth. 287 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:04,340 So, you're a liar? 288 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,593 Well, no, I mean, I don't make a habit out of lying. 289 00:16:08,385 --> 00:16:11,347 - Then I can't believe anything you say. - Why not? 290 00:16:12,932 --> 00:16:14,725 All right. Isaac, everyone. 291 00:16:17,937 --> 00:16:20,523 - Thanks for coming in. - Oh, thanks, man, I appreciate it. 292 00:16:21,398 --> 00:16:23,484 You sure you're okay to rehearse today? 293 00:16:23,567 --> 00:16:27,738 Yeah. I wanna get back into it. It'll take my mind off my grandpa. 294 00:16:27,822 --> 00:16:29,573 - Okay, cool. - Yeah. 295 00:16:29,907 --> 00:16:31,408 We're just back at the table? 296 00:16:31,492 --> 00:16:32,827 - Yeah, yeah. - Hey, dude. 297 00:16:33,369 --> 00:16:35,746 - I'm sorry, man. - Hey, thank you. Appreciate it. 298 00:16:38,457 --> 00:16:40,668 I mean, I know you guys got to spend some time together. 299 00:16:40,751 --> 00:16:44,046 - Yeah, it was cool, you know? - He obviously liked you. 300 00:16:44,755 --> 00:16:46,757 It was cool, you know. Friggin'… 301 00:16:46,841 --> 00:16:49,468 You know, your grandpa was cool. I'll tell you that. 302 00:16:49,552 --> 00:16:51,470 - So just… Yeah dude. - Thanks, man. 303 00:16:52,096 --> 00:16:55,474 The foundation had been laid. And Patrick was about to be thrust 304 00:16:55,558 --> 00:16:59,103 into the exact situation he had come to rehearse. 305 00:16:59,186 --> 00:17:00,479 Yeah, there was something 306 00:17:00,563 --> 00:17:03,941 that I wanted to talk to you about… before we started today, which was… 307 00:17:04,650 --> 00:17:07,570 I went to the hospital and saw my grandpa before he passed 308 00:17:07,653 --> 00:17:13,158 and he told me he was pretty adamant about that he wanted you 309 00:17:13,242 --> 00:17:15,077 to have some of his gold? 310 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:18,163 Yeah. He was really, you know, excited about finding it, 311 00:17:18,247 --> 00:17:20,165 like, we found it from his map and everything. 312 00:17:20,624 --> 00:17:22,793 He clearly wanted you to have it. 313 00:17:22,877 --> 00:17:26,171 So, you guys made some kind of connection, which is great. 314 00:17:26,255 --> 00:17:27,506 It's awesome. 315 00:17:27,590 --> 00:17:30,217 I'll never forget that. You know, that was awesome. 316 00:17:30,301 --> 00:17:31,343 - Yeah. - You know? 317 00:17:31,844 --> 00:17:35,681 I want to honor that, but also, I feel little bit uncomfortable 318 00:17:36,849 --> 00:17:39,852 giving you the gold because everything I know 319 00:17:39,935 --> 00:17:42,980 about Nessa being a gold digger. It makes me feel like 320 00:17:43,063 --> 00:17:45,024 if I give you the gold, 321 00:17:45,107 --> 00:17:48,027 what's to stop her from just taking it and leaving you. 322 00:17:48,110 --> 00:17:50,571 Nessa isn't a gold digger 'cause you know… 323 00:17:50,654 --> 00:17:52,489 But I mean, like, he wanted it to go to you 324 00:17:52,573 --> 00:17:56,702 and I'm a little bit afraid that Nessa being a gold digger… 325 00:17:56,785 --> 00:17:58,871 In regard to Nessa being a gold digger, she's not. 326 00:17:58,954 --> 00:18:01,874 And I would just say that, you know, I did say… 327 00:18:03,042 --> 00:18:04,877 - I did earn it. She was… - I feel bad 'caus 328 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:08,088 if we hadn't had tis conversation about Nessa's past, 329 00:18:08,172 --> 00:18:10,090 I wouldn't even know to think this. 330 00:18:10,507 --> 00:18:13,010 But you don't know her, so she's like a nobody to you. 331 00:18:13,093 --> 00:18:15,095 All I know is, like, what you told me about her. 332 00:18:15,179 --> 00:18:17,056 Yeah, I told you great things about her too, 333 00:18:17,139 --> 00:18:19,141 so I mean, why are you only picking on one side? 334 00:18:19,224 --> 00:18:21,560 I could tell Patrick was getting quite worked up, 335 00:18:21,644 --> 00:18:24,229 so I took him aside and said he could deal with this stuff 336 00:18:24,313 --> 00:18:27,149 on his own time, so we could begin rehearsing. 337 00:18:33,322 --> 00:18:35,199 Hey, Chris. 338 00:18:37,659 --> 00:18:39,828 - How's it going? - You started without me. 339 00:18:40,621 --> 00:18:43,082 You were taking a second longer, but it's okay. 340 00:18:46,126 --> 00:18:48,128 What do you need to talk about? 341 00:18:48,587 --> 00:18:51,090 I'm telling you right now, Nessa's not a gold digger. 342 00:18:51,173 --> 00:18:52,883 She's been helping me out, you know, 343 00:18:52,966 --> 00:18:55,052 and my life has been better because of her. 344 00:18:55,135 --> 00:18:57,388 You should be able to say, "Hey, look, you know what," 345 00:18:57,471 --> 00:18:58,847 you believe me on that. Okay? 346 00:18:58,931 --> 00:19:01,058 But I mean, I think in Nessa's case, like, 347 00:19:01,141 --> 00:19:04,061 she's hoping that you get this inheritance money, right? 348 00:19:04,144 --> 00:19:07,231 - That, like, you're trying to give… - Well, I wish you could trust me more. 349 00:19:07,314 --> 00:19:08,982 You know, I'm sorry that you have any resentment 350 00:19:09,066 --> 00:19:11,235 built up towards me, but, you know… 351 00:19:11,944 --> 00:19:14,446 you're still my younger brother, and I love you, you know. 352 00:19:14,530 --> 00:19:17,491 Congratulations for doing everything you're doing, you know. 353 00:19:17,574 --> 00:19:20,619 Fucking, just… we don't have that communication no more. 354 00:19:20,702 --> 00:19:22,871 And I wish we did sometimes. 355 00:19:24,248 --> 00:19:27,042 I wasn't sure what strategy Patrick was using, 356 00:19:27,126 --> 00:19:29,211 but it wasn't one we had rehearsed. 357 00:19:29,294 --> 00:19:32,047 You know, 'cause it's, like, I can't… Dude, I can't grieve. 358 00:19:32,131 --> 00:19:33,757 I haven't been able to grieve so much 359 00:19:33,841 --> 00:19:36,718 'cause there's been lawyers fighting this whole time since he passed away. 360 00:19:36,802 --> 00:19:39,638 I have yet to have the day where I just sit and cry about it. 361 00:19:39,721 --> 00:19:42,224 Yeah, I'm tired of having little spurts about it. 362 00:19:42,307 --> 00:19:44,518 I want it to be one and done. So if you could just… 363 00:19:45,561 --> 00:19:48,063 find it in your heart, how Big Wilf would've wanted you to, 364 00:19:48,147 --> 00:19:50,149 and just give me my portion. 365 00:19:50,232 --> 00:19:52,985 Where I don't have to fight you on it, where I don't have to call you about it. 366 00:19:53,068 --> 00:19:55,237 I could just handle it my way and it'd be done. 367 00:19:56,363 --> 00:19:58,657 That's what I want. I think that's what he would want. 368 00:19:58,991 --> 00:20:03,162 So, please. We're brothers, you know, we're supposed to be working together. 369 00:20:04,830 --> 00:20:08,000 I'm tired of living like it's the day after he died. 370 00:20:09,209 --> 00:20:12,880 So, please, just let me move on, man. Just let me have it. 371 00:20:14,423 --> 00:20:18,427 And all right, it's your life, it's your money, 372 00:20:18,510 --> 00:20:21,388 it's what grandpa wanted for you to have in the long run, so… 373 00:20:22,556 --> 00:20:25,267 You're a man and you deserve to make your own decisions. 374 00:20:25,934 --> 00:20:28,854 - Thank you, Chris. Yeah. - Yeah, man. 375 00:20:28,937 --> 00:20:30,439 - Okay, give me a hug. - Yeah. 376 00:20:33,692 --> 00:20:35,193 Thank you, Chris. 377 00:20:35,277 --> 00:20:37,195 - I love you, brother. - I love you too. 378 00:20:37,946 --> 00:20:39,740 All right, all right. I'm done crying. 379 00:20:42,117 --> 00:20:43,327 Thank you. 380 00:20:44,745 --> 00:20:46,955 Something had happened inside Patrick, 381 00:20:47,039 --> 00:20:49,291 and it seemed like we had made a breakthrough. 382 00:20:50,250 --> 00:20:53,795 But this would only be a success if he could repeat it with his brother. 383 00:21:05,807 --> 00:21:08,393 - Which one do you want? - Uh, watermelon. 384 00:21:08,477 --> 00:21:09,770 Oh, watermelon. 385 00:21:10,145 --> 00:21:15,442 Yeah, the nanny's running a little late. But I can, I'll come by right after. 386 00:21:17,486 --> 00:21:20,155 - Hi! How are you? - Hi. Good, I'm Destiny. 387 00:21:20,238 --> 00:21:21,990 - Destiny, yeah. Thanks for coming. - It's right here. 388 00:21:22,074 --> 00:21:23,533 - This is Angela. - Hi! 389 00:21:23,992 --> 00:21:25,786 - Hi. Nice to meet you. - That's Adam. 390 00:21:25,869 --> 00:21:27,412 - You too. Thank you. - Yeah, welcome. 391 00:21:27,496 --> 00:21:29,706 I have around eight years' experience. 392 00:21:33,001 --> 00:21:35,170 Began originally with my church as a church leader. 393 00:21:35,253 --> 00:21:38,423 So, Angela and I are kind of in a non-traditional, 394 00:21:38,507 --> 00:21:41,426 non-romantic relationship. 395 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:45,263 We're here to co-parent this child as part of a rehearsal. 396 00:21:45,347 --> 00:21:47,349 - It's a simulated experience. - Before we have… Yeah. 397 00:21:47,432 --> 00:21:50,143 Before deciding if we wanna do it in our real lives. 398 00:21:50,686 --> 00:21:52,020 Separately. 399 00:21:52,104 --> 00:21:53,355 - Okay. - Yeah, separately. 400 00:21:53,438 --> 00:21:54,856 We wouldn't together, yeah. 401 00:21:54,940 --> 00:21:57,109 - Oh, okay. - Yeah, so the extensive camera 402 00:21:57,192 --> 00:22:01,113 set up here is not because we don't trust you. 403 00:22:01,488 --> 00:22:03,365 - Okay, so… - Yeah, they're not nanny cams. 404 00:22:03,448 --> 00:22:04,741 - Oh, okay. - Yeah, yeah. 405 00:22:04,825 --> 00:22:07,035 So, this is a camera in regards to the production? 406 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:08,537 - Yes. It's… - Okay. 407 00:22:08,620 --> 00:22:09,996 Same with the timer, I see. 408 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,916 Yeah, the clock is a countdown clock 'cause this is an actor. 409 00:22:13,417 --> 00:22:15,961 The child, so he can only… 410 00:22:16,670 --> 00:22:18,713 They can only work for a certain amount of hours. 411 00:22:19,089 --> 00:22:20,382 - Okay. - So… 412 00:22:20,465 --> 00:22:22,092 - I's really… - Oh, yeah, that makes sense. 413 00:22:22,175 --> 00:22:23,635 Okay, bye, Adam. 414 00:22:24,261 --> 00:22:26,096 - Why? - I'm going to work. 415 00:22:28,557 --> 00:22:30,100 Come on. 416 00:22:31,935 --> 00:22:33,687 But when I got to the warehouse, 417 00:22:33,770 --> 00:22:36,731 Patrick wasn't there, and no one could track him down. 418 00:22:38,733 --> 00:22:40,444 So, I just had to wait. 419 00:22:49,035 --> 00:22:50,620 I don't want you. 420 00:22:54,541 --> 00:22:56,168 I don't want you. 421 00:22:57,919 --> 00:22:59,629 When I finally got him on the phone, 422 00:22:59,713 --> 00:23:02,507 he told me he was at an amusement park with his girlfriend. 423 00:23:02,841 --> 00:23:05,927 I kinda had plans with the girlfriend now to go have like a… 424 00:23:06,678 --> 00:23:09,514 What's that cake called? 425 00:23:09,890 --> 00:23:12,976 Funnel cake. Like, I've never had funnel cake before. 426 00:23:13,059 --> 00:23:14,644 - Okay. - So, yeah. 427 00:23:14,728 --> 00:23:16,980 I'd like to have some… a little bit of funnel cake. 428 00:23:17,063 --> 00:23:18,815 - Treat myself for a second. - Right. 429 00:23:19,941 --> 00:23:22,903 He said I could come join him for funnel cake if I wanted. 430 00:23:26,031 --> 00:23:29,242 But by the time I got there, his cell phone had died 431 00:23:29,326 --> 00:23:30,869 and I couldn't find him. 432 00:23:34,164 --> 00:23:36,249 I never heard from Patrick again. 433 00:23:42,547 --> 00:23:45,842 Maybe for some, the rehearsal itself is enough. 434 00:23:52,766 --> 00:23:56,061 What is it? Why do you keep turning away from me? 435 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,814 I was starting to wonder how I could so easily 436 00:23:59,898 --> 00:24:02,651 create feelings inside other people's rehearsals 437 00:24:02,734 --> 00:24:06,571 - when I couldn't do it for myself. - Where are you going? 438 00:24:11,868 --> 00:24:15,372 Okay, I'll just leave it here with you and then you can change it 439 00:24:15,455 --> 00:24:17,874 when you're ready, okay? 440 00:24:20,418 --> 00:24:22,337 This is the day Mommy bought you home. 441 00:24:22,879 --> 00:24:24,965 - You were just a baby. - Yeah. 442 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:28,593 I had a photo album made that blended false memories 443 00:24:28,677 --> 00:24:31,388 with real ones to help fill in the gaps 444 00:24:31,471 --> 00:24:34,307 and enhance the feeling of a complete life. 445 00:24:34,933 --> 00:24:39,396 Thomas, the train! I need to go there now! 446 00:24:41,648 --> 00:24:45,193 Time moved differently in here, and I was still getting used to it. 447 00:24:45,610 --> 00:24:48,822 - It was behind it, here. - Okay, yeah. It was. 448 00:24:52,450 --> 00:24:54,994 When your three-year-old son goes into his room… 449 00:24:55,829 --> 00:24:57,831 - Adam? - Yes, Dad? 450 00:24:58,164 --> 00:25:00,458 And emerges as a six-year-old a minute later, 451 00:25:01,334 --> 00:25:03,461 it can be hard to stay in the moment. 452 00:25:04,295 --> 00:25:06,297 Um, so what do you wanna do today? 453 00:25:06,881 --> 00:25:09,759 So, you need to have custom digital mirrors installed 454 00:25:09,843 --> 00:25:13,388 that allow you to see yourself age at the same pace as your child. 455 00:25:16,224 --> 00:25:19,561 But that means the world around you has to move faster too. 456 00:25:20,603 --> 00:25:24,649 Seeds that are planted one week have to be plump vegetables the next. 457 00:25:29,404 --> 00:25:32,031 Nature's timeline has to be accelerated… 458 00:25:34,576 --> 00:25:38,121 and your brain desperately tries to adapt to your new reality. 459 00:25:43,168 --> 00:25:45,837 And then every now and then, there are these glimmers… 460 00:25:46,671 --> 00:25:49,299 - That was kind of fun, huh? - These moments where you forget 461 00:25:49,841 --> 00:25:51,885 and you just feel like a family. 462 00:25:52,510 --> 00:25:54,012 You're gonna get me? 463 00:25:54,095 --> 00:25:57,599 Don't get me! You threw it! What the heck! 464 00:25:58,183 --> 00:26:00,643 That's when you know the rehearsal is working. 465 00:26:00,977 --> 00:26:04,689 No! Help. I'm dead. 466 00:26:07,734 --> 00:26:09,777 I often feel envious of others. 467 00:26:11,196 --> 00:26:14,532 The way they can immerse themselves in a world with so little effort. 468 00:26:16,576 --> 00:26:18,494 The way they can just believe. 469 00:26:18,953 --> 00:26:25,001 I Googled origins of Halloween and it came up Celtic tradition. 470 00:26:25,585 --> 00:26:27,879 Oh, maybe… Did you do a keyword search? 471 00:26:27,962 --> 00:26:29,714 "Halloween satanic origins?" 472 00:26:30,089 --> 00:26:33,760 To gather only what they need to know and ignore the rest. 473 00:26:34,886 --> 00:26:37,430 Yeah, and Google's really censoring a lot of stuff now. 474 00:26:38,097 --> 00:26:42,769 That's weird. Why would Google be, like, incentivized to suppress results 475 00:26:42,852 --> 00:26:45,980 like that, like, what do they have to gain? 476 00:26:46,064 --> 00:26:47,690 'Cause they're controlled by the Devil. 477 00:26:47,774 --> 00:26:49,234 - And the Devil is… - Google is? 478 00:26:49,317 --> 00:26:50,610 Yeah, and the Devil's biggest trick 479 00:26:50,693 --> 00:26:52,695 is to convince people that he doesn't even exist. 480 00:26:53,613 --> 00:26:55,907 Yeah, maybe let's not talk about this around the kids. 481 00:26:55,990 --> 00:26:57,242 Yeah, okay. Yeah. 482 00:26:59,702 --> 00:27:02,455 These are smart labels and covers. 483 00:27:04,082 --> 00:27:07,126 I think we need to take that part off. 484 00:27:07,794 --> 00:27:09,587 Emotions are a funny thing. 485 00:27:10,463 --> 00:27:12,507 They're not easy to engineer. 486 00:27:14,467 --> 00:27:18,012 After all, there's only so much you can do to deceive yourself. 487 00:27:20,264 --> 00:27:25,436 And even when you think of everything there will always be things you forget.