1 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,011 Give it up for your Wings of Voice Top 50 2 00:00:10,095 --> 00:00:13,264 in our Celebration of Genre Medley! 3 00:00:13,390 --> 00:00:18,103 Amazing grace 4 00:00:18,186 --> 00:00:23,274 How sweet the sound 5 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:28,029 That saved a wretch 6 00:00:28,279 --> 00:00:33,368 Like me 7 00:00:33,451 --> 00:00:38,289 I once was lost but now I'm found 8 00:00:38,415 --> 00:00:40,208 Was blind but 9 00:00:40,458 --> 00:00:43,253 Now I see 10 00:00:43,461 --> 00:00:47,966 Amazing grace 11 00:00:48,049 --> 00:00:50,301 How sweet 12 00:00:50,385 --> 00:00:52,095 Your grace is amazing 13 00:00:52,220 --> 00:00:54,472 Sound so sweet I can taste it 14 00:00:54,597 --> 00:00:56,683 Any wretch, he'll catch you, save you 15 00:00:56,766 --> 00:00:58,101 What a sensation 16 00:00:58,184 --> 00:00:59,769 - Man, it's amazing - Grace! 17 00:01:02,564 --> 00:01:05,442 Amazing grace… 18 00:01:05,567 --> 00:01:09,154 Wings of Voice no longer had much of a purpose to me. 19 00:01:09,237 --> 00:01:11,489 But I had an obligation to these singers 20 00:01:11,573 --> 00:01:13,366 to see the competition through. 21 00:01:13,533 --> 00:01:17,287 It won't be all celebration today for our talented singers. 22 00:01:17,370 --> 00:01:22,042 Forty of the faces you see up here will be going home tonight. 23 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:26,379 But I was finding it hard to stay focused on the competition 24 00:01:26,463 --> 00:01:29,215 with everything I'd been learning about these pilots. 25 00:01:29,299 --> 00:01:31,301 James E. Barmore Jr. 26 00:01:34,220 --> 00:01:35,555 Samouhi. 27 00:01:37,932 --> 00:01:38,933 Quin. 28 00:01:41,519 --> 00:01:44,189 Unfortunately, you will not be advancing. 29 00:01:45,273 --> 00:01:47,108 It was sort of shocking to discover 30 00:01:47,233 --> 00:01:50,320 that no matter what a pilot is going through emotionally, 31 00:01:50,403 --> 00:01:52,322 talking to a therapist about it 32 00:01:52,405 --> 00:01:54,783 might lead to them losing their license. 33 00:01:55,450 --> 00:01:57,869 So, during breaks in the competition, 34 00:01:57,952 --> 00:02:00,914 I brought in actors posing as crew members 35 00:02:00,997 --> 00:02:04,042 to casually engage co-pilots in conversation. 36 00:02:04,125 --> 00:02:05,710 You look pretty young to be a pilot. 37 00:02:05,794 --> 00:02:07,212 - Twenty-seven. Yeah. - Twenty-seven? Okay. 38 00:02:07,295 --> 00:02:08,630 I would have guessed younger, actually. 39 00:02:08,838 --> 00:02:11,633 I thought it might be nice to just give them a release valve, 40 00:02:11,716 --> 00:02:12,842 in case they needed it. 41 00:02:12,926 --> 00:02:14,677 - It's been a year since the breakup? - Yeah, yeah. 42 00:02:14,761 --> 00:02:16,888 - Maybe a year and a half, yeah. - Did you guys live together? 43 00:02:16,971 --> 00:02:18,681 - Yeah. For about a year, yeah. - Oh, wow. 44 00:02:18,765 --> 00:02:21,518 I remember sitting there in my room, just… 45 00:02:22,352 --> 00:02:23,561 - stunned. - Yeah. 46 00:02:23,645 --> 00:02:25,480 You know, like, "How could that happen?" 47 00:02:25,563 --> 00:02:28,733 I just want to be clear in case the FAA is watching. 48 00:02:28,942 --> 00:02:30,902 This is in no way therapy. 49 00:02:31,236 --> 00:02:33,029 This is just two people talking. 50 00:02:33,113 --> 00:02:34,656 - It's not… I'm not unhappy… - Yeah. 51 00:02:34,739 --> 00:02:36,407 …but am I fulfilled? 52 00:02:36,491 --> 00:02:37,992 Would I like to be doing something different? 53 00:02:38,118 --> 00:02:39,327 - I don't know. - You don't know? 54 00:02:39,410 --> 00:02:41,246 What would you do if you could do something different? 55 00:02:41,371 --> 00:02:42,539 Yeah, that's the thing… 56 00:02:42,664 --> 00:02:45,792 But as I listened in on these private conversations, 57 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:47,627 I noticed one co-pilot 58 00:02:47,710 --> 00:02:49,921 who was having an especially hard time 59 00:02:50,004 --> 00:02:51,422 talking about stuff. 60 00:02:53,091 --> 00:02:54,217 - No? - No. 61 00:02:54,884 --> 00:02:56,010 Yep, that's… 62 00:02:57,470 --> 00:03:01,266 Colin is a First Officer who flies for an air cargo company. 63 00:03:01,391 --> 00:03:05,103 And when his dating life came up, he was very short on words. 64 00:03:05,228 --> 00:03:07,063 Is that like an issue then, 65 00:03:07,147 --> 00:03:08,940 in piloting? Where you're not able to like… 66 00:03:09,023 --> 00:03:12,485 It's definitely… Yeah. It's definitely a common thing. 67 00:03:13,027 --> 00:03:14,445 - Excuse me. Common thing. - You're good. 68 00:03:14,529 --> 00:03:17,448 - Any dates recently or… - Nope. Doesn't really work out. 69 00:03:19,534 --> 00:03:22,829 I mean, yeah, that's tough. That's a tough time to… 70 00:03:22,912 --> 00:03:25,248 And I was curious to find out more. 71 00:03:25,373 --> 00:03:27,125 I couldn't help but overhear you talking 72 00:03:27,208 --> 00:03:30,295 with our boom operator, Lucas, one of our operators. 73 00:03:30,378 --> 00:03:32,839 - Yep, seems like a nice guy. - Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. 74 00:03:32,964 --> 00:03:36,217 You guys were talking about dating stuff? Or… 75 00:03:36,759 --> 00:03:38,928 - A little bit, yeah. - What was… 76 00:03:39,053 --> 00:03:42,473 Like, "How do you initiate a con… that conversation 77 00:03:42,557 --> 00:03:44,684 - with total strangers" type thing. - Oh, yeah. 78 00:03:44,767 --> 00:03:46,436 Like, trying to figure out the wording of it, 79 00:03:46,519 --> 00:03:49,147 'cause in person you have that one shot and you just do it. 80 00:03:49,230 --> 00:03:50,440 - Yeah. - Yeah, I don't know. 81 00:03:50,523 --> 00:03:51,774 Yeah. 82 00:03:53,193 --> 00:03:54,819 Not… It hasn't worked. It didn't work. 83 00:03:56,112 --> 00:03:58,615 But Colin's struggle didn't surprise me. 84 00:04:00,950 --> 00:04:02,452 Whenever I travel now, 85 00:04:02,535 --> 00:04:05,413 I can't help but notice pilots everywhere 86 00:04:05,538 --> 00:04:07,582 just not talking to each other. 87 00:04:10,168 --> 00:04:13,838 Standing in complete silence moments before flying 88 00:04:13,922 --> 00:04:16,257 hundreds of people through the sky. 89 00:04:19,052 --> 00:04:22,013 Was this really how to start a healthy relationship 90 00:04:22,096 --> 00:04:23,806 between two strangers? 91 00:04:25,266 --> 00:04:29,938 What if this time was instead used to understand each other? 92 00:04:32,190 --> 00:04:35,068 To build a relationship that could withstand 93 00:04:35,151 --> 00:04:37,487 any challenge that comes their way. 94 00:04:40,114 --> 00:04:43,159 But what tools does a pilot need to do this? 95 00:04:43,243 --> 00:04:45,203 I've tried things like trying to be someone you're not, 96 00:04:45,286 --> 00:04:48,414 trying to seem more outgoing or cooler than you are. 97 00:04:48,665 --> 00:04:49,958 - You've tried that? - I've tried that. 98 00:04:50,041 --> 00:04:51,751 - How do you… - I fell right on my face. 99 00:04:51,834 --> 00:04:53,628 - Oh, really? With a girl? - Yep. Yep. 100 00:04:53,711 --> 00:04:56,089 It's one of those things where I was kind of, like, 101 00:04:56,214 --> 00:04:57,674 almost humiliated, so I was like, 102 00:04:57,757 --> 00:04:59,926 "Let's get all that information out of my head." 103 00:05:00,051 --> 00:05:02,595 Colin had recently messaged a woman. 104 00:05:02,762 --> 00:05:07,267 "Hey, do you have any travel tips for Greenland and Iceland?" 105 00:05:07,350 --> 00:05:09,477 "I saw you've been there a couple times." 106 00:05:11,062 --> 00:05:12,605 - This is just some girl? - Yeah. 107 00:05:12,689 --> 00:05:13,815 Oh, okay. 108 00:05:16,067 --> 00:05:17,652 You think you'll get a response? 109 00:05:19,028 --> 00:05:21,114 - Maybe. - Okay. 110 00:05:22,031 --> 00:05:23,032 Cool. 111 00:05:32,125 --> 00:05:33,876 Okay, come on in here. 112 00:05:34,836 --> 00:05:38,298 So this is why I asked you what you'd be wearing today. 113 00:05:38,339 --> 00:05:39,549 - Okay. - To send photos. 114 00:05:40,091 --> 00:05:42,385 It's something I've been working on called The Pack. 115 00:05:42,468 --> 00:05:43,636 - Yep. - And so I think 116 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:47,849 it may have the potential to, like, help change human behavior. 117 00:05:49,684 --> 00:05:52,145 I saw a nature documentary recently 118 00:05:52,228 --> 00:05:55,273 where it said that animals will hunt in packs… 119 00:05:55,815 --> 00:05:57,066 - Colin. - Colin. 120 00:05:57,191 --> 00:05:59,652 …'cause it gives each individual animal 121 00:05:59,736 --> 00:06:01,446 the confidence to do things 122 00:06:01,529 --> 00:06:04,115 they'd normally be afraid to do on their own. 123 00:06:04,198 --> 00:06:06,242 - You wanna get a coffee real quick? - Wanna get a coffee? 124 00:06:06,367 --> 00:06:07,410 - Sure. Yeah. - All right. 125 00:06:07,493 --> 00:06:10,788 I wondered if that idea applied to humans 126 00:06:10,872 --> 00:06:14,167 would make social interactions feel less scary. 127 00:06:14,709 --> 00:06:17,211 Rehearsing a date scenario with an actress, 128 00:06:17,628 --> 00:06:21,215 but now with 15 of you instead of just one. 129 00:06:21,299 --> 00:06:23,051 Black coffee, that's pretty hardcore. 130 00:06:23,134 --> 00:06:24,635 - It's normal. - It's normal. 131 00:06:25,636 --> 00:06:27,513 - It's much easier to do. - It's much easier to do. 132 00:06:27,638 --> 00:06:28,681 I had a theory 133 00:06:28,765 --> 00:06:31,184 that the start of a romantic relationship 134 00:06:31,267 --> 00:06:32,727 is a great parallel 135 00:06:32,852 --> 00:06:35,229 for two pilots meeting before a flight. 136 00:06:35,355 --> 00:06:37,982 What's the longest you could go without coffee? 137 00:06:38,983 --> 00:06:41,944 I mean, I could probably just go without it for a day, 138 00:06:42,153 --> 00:06:43,488 but it definitely helps… 139 00:06:43,571 --> 00:06:46,199 You become intimately involved with a stranger 140 00:06:46,282 --> 00:06:48,117 where both people are desperately trying 141 00:06:48,201 --> 00:06:49,452 to read each other, 142 00:06:49,535 --> 00:06:52,372 but the pressure to show the best version of yourself 143 00:06:52,663 --> 00:06:55,375 can prevent you from sharing what you actually feel. 144 00:06:55,458 --> 00:06:56,584 Yeah, so I think I need 145 00:06:56,667 --> 00:06:58,252 to probably get to the airport, so… 146 00:06:58,336 --> 00:06:59,921 Oh! Oh, you're going straight to the airport. 147 00:07:00,004 --> 00:07:01,172 - Yeah. - Yeah. 148 00:07:01,214 --> 00:07:02,965 - Best of luck? - Yeah, thank you. You, too. 149 00:07:03,049 --> 00:07:04,926 Okay. Take it easy. 150 00:07:09,639 --> 00:07:10,723 - Safe travels. - Yeah, you, too. 151 00:07:10,807 --> 00:07:13,101 - Have a great rest of your day. - Thank you. 152 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:18,356 You sort of said, "Oh, I gotta go. I'll see you later." 153 00:07:19,065 --> 00:07:21,234 But did you feel like you gave the impression 154 00:07:21,317 --> 00:07:23,027 that you would want to see her again? 155 00:07:26,656 --> 00:07:27,657 I don't know. 156 00:07:27,740 --> 00:07:30,201 I felt like Colin was gaining confidence 157 00:07:30,284 --> 00:07:31,285 with this Pack. 158 00:07:31,369 --> 00:07:32,995 Yeah, I've had a great time with you today. 159 00:07:33,079 --> 00:07:36,124 I'd like to do it again sometime later this week if you're free. 160 00:07:36,207 --> 00:07:38,000 - I'd love that. - Great. 161 00:07:38,126 --> 00:07:41,546 But of course, this date was all fake. 162 00:07:42,171 --> 00:07:43,881 For me to know if any technique 163 00:07:43,965 --> 00:07:46,801 would actually help change Colin's behavior, 164 00:07:46,884 --> 00:07:49,887 he would need to get into a real relationship. 165 00:07:50,054 --> 00:07:51,139 Nope. 166 00:07:51,222 --> 00:07:54,016 He didn't have any replies yet on his DMs. 167 00:07:54,100 --> 00:07:55,143 Well… 168 00:07:55,268 --> 00:07:57,645 Sounds… Seems pretty normal for just a random person. 169 00:07:57,728 --> 00:07:59,939 - Yeah. - So after Colin left, 170 00:08:00,106 --> 00:08:03,818 I decided to gather all the actors with a different idea. 171 00:08:04,235 --> 00:08:06,446 So, who here is into Colin? 172 00:08:07,071 --> 00:08:08,322 Into him how? 173 00:08:08,406 --> 00:08:10,700 - Can you define what that means? - When I say "into," 174 00:08:10,783 --> 00:08:14,454 I mean you find him cute, 175 00:08:14,704 --> 00:08:15,997 or are attracted to him. 176 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:17,540 I mean, I think he's kind of charming. 177 00:08:17,665 --> 00:08:19,584 Okay, raise your hand and keep it up 178 00:08:19,667 --> 00:08:21,752 - if you're into him. - He's kind of cute. 179 00:08:21,836 --> 00:08:25,339 Raise your hand. You? Okay, okay. 180 00:08:25,465 --> 00:08:29,343 So hands… One, two, three here. Okay. 181 00:08:29,469 --> 00:08:30,761 The rest of you guys can leave. 182 00:08:31,095 --> 00:08:33,514 So what do you guys like the most about Colin? 183 00:08:35,808 --> 00:08:37,977 He seems like the kind of guy where once you get to know him, 184 00:08:38,060 --> 00:08:39,103 he's probably funny. 185 00:08:39,187 --> 00:08:40,229 - Yeah. - But… 186 00:08:40,813 --> 00:08:42,106 He's a little reserved. 187 00:08:42,190 --> 00:08:43,274 I mean, I could be wrong, but… 188 00:08:43,357 --> 00:08:45,276 - He was just really sweet, and… - Yeah. 189 00:08:45,359 --> 00:08:47,945 He seems to, yeah, go do a lot of adventures 190 00:08:48,029 --> 00:08:49,739 and things like that, and that's… 191 00:08:49,822 --> 00:08:52,700 You know, I'm not so much attracted to men physically. 192 00:08:52,783 --> 00:08:54,869 - It's more intellectually. - He's smart. 193 00:08:54,952 --> 00:08:56,829 - I mean, Colin's really smart. - I know, and I like… 194 00:08:56,913 --> 00:08:58,706 That's what I like. To me, that's what turns me on. 195 00:08:58,789 --> 00:09:00,333 You're turned on by his intelligence. 196 00:09:00,500 --> 00:09:01,876 I'm turned on by intelligence. 197 00:09:01,959 --> 00:09:03,836 Like, when I was a little kid, 198 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:06,547 Einstein was a guy I thought was so sexy. 199 00:09:06,672 --> 00:09:08,966 - Einstein? - Einstein, yes. 200 00:09:09,050 --> 00:09:10,885 - Really? - Yeah, and I read his story 201 00:09:10,968 --> 00:09:12,136 and everything. I was like, 202 00:09:12,220 --> 00:09:14,805 "Oh, yeah, this is the kind of man I would have loved." 203 00:09:14,889 --> 00:09:15,890 Einstein. 204 00:09:15,973 --> 00:09:17,558 And he had a baby when he was really young. 205 00:09:17,642 --> 00:09:18,976 - Did you know that? - No. 206 00:09:19,101 --> 00:09:21,145 Y'all don't know? You know, just when you have a… 207 00:09:21,604 --> 00:09:23,356 I don't want to say that, but… 208 00:09:23,439 --> 00:09:25,274 - What? - A wet dream, but you know… 209 00:09:25,399 --> 00:09:27,109 - A wet dream? - Wow. 210 00:09:27,485 --> 00:09:29,320 You had a wet dream about Einstein? 211 00:09:29,403 --> 00:09:31,113 I was turned on to him. Yeah. 212 00:09:31,239 --> 00:09:33,074 What's a wet dream for a woman? 213 00:09:33,157 --> 00:09:35,117 'Cause I know sort of, for… 214 00:09:35,201 --> 00:09:38,663 Well, you can… Women can get wet, too, you know. 215 00:09:38,746 --> 00:09:39,789 I… I… 216 00:09:39,872 --> 00:09:42,667 But I'm not saying it's a dream. I was wide awake when I had it. 217 00:09:42,750 --> 00:09:44,460 - You were wide awake? - I was wide awake. 218 00:09:44,544 --> 00:09:45,962 - Yeah. - Is that a wet dream? 219 00:09:46,045 --> 00:09:47,547 - If you're awake? - But it wasn't really a… 220 00:09:47,630 --> 00:09:48,798 Well, I wasn't asleep… 221 00:09:48,881 --> 00:09:50,299 - Are you saying… - …but I was wet. 222 00:09:50,383 --> 00:09:51,926 I mean, I was wet and I was awake. 223 00:09:52,176 --> 00:09:54,637 I was reading his book, his biography. 224 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:56,055 - His biography? - His biography. 225 00:09:56,138 --> 00:09:57,431 And when I read about him, 226 00:09:57,890 --> 00:10:01,060 and looked at that E equals MC squared, 227 00:10:01,143 --> 00:10:02,728 I don't know, it was just a turn-on. 228 00:10:02,812 --> 00:10:05,022 - I can't really explain it. - And you got wet in that moment. 229 00:10:05,106 --> 00:10:06,774 Yeah, I literally got wet in the moment. 230 00:10:06,899 --> 00:10:08,693 So you feel like Colin's kind of an Einstein? 231 00:10:08,776 --> 00:10:11,737 Well, even, you know… He's got intelligence. 232 00:10:11,821 --> 00:10:13,447 - That's what I'm saying. - Yeah. 233 00:10:13,823 --> 00:10:17,201 I wouldn't say he's an Einstein. Einstein is one of a kind. 234 00:10:17,285 --> 00:10:20,121 It was hard to say the true level of interest 235 00:10:20,204 --> 00:10:22,415 any of these women had in Colin. 236 00:10:22,498 --> 00:10:23,749 Other than like strictly physical, 237 00:10:23,833 --> 00:10:25,376 I mean, just the way that he holds himself 238 00:10:25,459 --> 00:10:26,460 I think is kind of charming. 239 00:10:26,544 --> 00:10:29,171 But if something real were to happen here, 240 00:10:29,255 --> 00:10:30,715 I knew I couldn't force it. 241 00:10:30,798 --> 00:10:33,759 Ethically speaking, I can't ask you 242 00:10:33,843 --> 00:10:35,011 to pursue Colin, 243 00:10:35,094 --> 00:10:37,638 but if tomorrow during any one of your breaks, 244 00:10:37,722 --> 00:10:39,807 - you wanna shoot your shot… - Yeah. 245 00:10:39,890 --> 00:10:41,934 - Let's just say… - Give it your best shot. 246 00:10:42,018 --> 00:10:44,604 …I'm not gonna stand in your way. 247 00:10:45,229 --> 00:10:46,272 Yeah. 248 00:10:46,606 --> 00:10:49,859 The door is open. Walk on in. 249 00:10:51,027 --> 00:10:53,321 - Let the games begin. - Let the games begin. 250 00:10:57,908 --> 00:11:00,286 Colin said he didn't have much of a social life 251 00:11:00,369 --> 00:11:01,912 outside of his job, 252 00:11:02,038 --> 00:11:03,539 so I thought it might be helpful 253 00:11:03,623 --> 00:11:07,251 for him to practice expressing romantic interest to a colleague. 254 00:11:07,418 --> 00:11:09,378 Anything good on any of those magazines? 255 00:11:10,838 --> 00:11:13,257 No. Just usual trashy fare. 256 00:11:14,550 --> 00:11:15,968 - Yeah, I bet. - Yeah, I bet. 257 00:11:16,427 --> 00:11:20,514 But I was most curious to see if the time he had spent with his Pack 258 00:11:20,598 --> 00:11:23,184 would help Colin form real chemistry 259 00:11:23,267 --> 00:11:25,436 once everyone was off the clock. 260 00:11:38,199 --> 00:11:40,451 Did you go to school in… 261 00:11:42,453 --> 00:11:44,872 - Alabama? - Yeah. I went to high school 262 00:11:44,955 --> 00:11:46,582 about half an hour south of Huntsville. 263 00:11:46,666 --> 00:11:48,417 - Oh, okay. - I was going to go to Ireland, 264 00:11:48,501 --> 00:11:50,711 and then my… One of my bartender friends said, 265 00:11:50,795 --> 00:11:52,713 "Hey, dummy, Oktoberfest is happening!" 266 00:11:53,047 --> 00:11:54,632 - So, I changed plans. - "Go there!" Oh, my God. 267 00:11:54,757 --> 00:11:56,342 Two days later, I was on the flight to Munich. 268 00:11:56,425 --> 00:11:57,510 - And how was that? - Awesome. 269 00:11:57,593 --> 00:11:58,761 - That was probably insane. - Yeah. 270 00:11:58,844 --> 00:12:00,012 So, yeah, I travel places, 271 00:12:00,096 --> 00:12:01,639 but my list never gets any shorter. 272 00:12:01,806 --> 00:12:03,933 See, well, what do you have on the list, though? 273 00:12:04,016 --> 00:12:07,770 Like, I've got… I do eventually, like, want to climb Kilimanjaro. 274 00:12:07,853 --> 00:12:09,355 Need to explore more of Europe. 275 00:12:09,438 --> 00:12:10,481 Okay. 276 00:12:11,273 --> 00:12:12,525 Like I said, I need to finish… 277 00:12:12,650 --> 00:12:13,651 Yeah. 278 00:12:14,276 --> 00:12:15,319 No, you're good. 279 00:12:25,996 --> 00:12:27,081 Yeah. 280 00:12:27,164 --> 00:12:29,458 I'm gonna head back, but yeah. Definitely Seoul. 281 00:12:29,542 --> 00:12:31,043 - Yeah. - You gotta go there. 282 00:12:31,127 --> 00:12:32,920 - It's on the list. - Yes, top of the list. 283 00:12:33,003 --> 00:12:34,588 But it was pretty unclear to me 284 00:12:34,672 --> 00:12:37,758 if anything came from these conversations. 285 00:12:38,217 --> 00:12:40,636 So later, I checked in with Colin. 286 00:12:40,886 --> 00:12:42,096 So, how's it going? 287 00:12:43,305 --> 00:12:44,306 Seems to be good. 288 00:12:44,473 --> 00:12:48,060 Did you get any responses to those messages you sent out? 289 00:12:48,144 --> 00:12:49,145 - Nope. - Nothing? 290 00:12:49,228 --> 00:12:50,271 Nothing. 291 00:12:52,606 --> 00:12:53,607 Sorry. 292 00:12:54,900 --> 00:12:57,278 It is what it is. But… 293 00:12:57,653 --> 00:12:59,321 like… 294 00:13:00,239 --> 00:13:03,826 I got some good travel ideas from one of the actresses, Emma. 295 00:13:03,909 --> 00:13:06,245 - Oh, yeah? - So we might try and bounce ideas 296 00:13:06,328 --> 00:13:08,372 off of each other over a cup of coffee or something. 297 00:13:08,748 --> 00:13:09,915 Bounce ideas? 298 00:13:11,167 --> 00:13:12,334 - Yep. - Good. 299 00:13:12,710 --> 00:13:14,086 You know, she actually told me 300 00:13:14,170 --> 00:13:16,172 that she has a bit of a crush on you. 301 00:13:17,548 --> 00:13:18,549 Interesting. 302 00:13:18,674 --> 00:13:20,468 You ask her out, or she ask you out? 303 00:13:21,427 --> 00:13:23,345 - Little of both. - Little of both? 304 00:13:24,096 --> 00:13:27,600 Nice. Well, let the games begin, I guess. 305 00:13:27,683 --> 00:13:28,726 Yeah, we'll see. 306 00:13:29,727 --> 00:13:33,981 I hear you and Colin might be going out 307 00:13:34,064 --> 00:13:35,524 or have a plan? 308 00:13:35,608 --> 00:13:38,319 Yeah, maybe some coffee, but I don't know where. 309 00:13:38,402 --> 00:13:40,529 And you… You really like him? 310 00:13:40,696 --> 00:13:42,364 I mean, yeah. Like, I… 311 00:13:43,157 --> 00:13:44,158 I… 312 00:13:44,867 --> 00:13:46,202 want to get to know him more. 313 00:13:46,327 --> 00:13:48,913 - And your intentions are pure? - I would say so. 314 00:13:48,996 --> 00:13:50,206 - Yeah. - I'm not… Trust me, I'm not… 315 00:13:50,289 --> 00:13:52,374 I'm only saying, you know, Collin is just such a sweet guy. 316 00:13:52,458 --> 00:13:54,668 - Yeah. - So I would hate if anyone had… 317 00:13:55,294 --> 00:13:57,546 you know, didn't have the best intentions 318 00:13:57,630 --> 00:14:00,549 in terms of pursuing him, but… 319 00:14:00,633 --> 00:14:03,677 I wouldn't say I'm that person, and I… because I literally… 320 00:14:04,970 --> 00:14:07,556 This is too hard for me to even do. 321 00:14:08,015 --> 00:14:09,809 It seemed like the foundation 322 00:14:09,892 --> 00:14:11,977 for a genuine connection was there. 323 00:14:12,102 --> 00:14:14,396 But just because you're going on a first date, 324 00:14:14,605 --> 00:14:18,025 it doesn't mean two people have truly bonded yet. 325 00:14:18,108 --> 00:14:19,693 - Where are you from, brother? - Indianapolis. 326 00:14:19,777 --> 00:14:20,986 Oh, sick. You a Colts fan? 327 00:14:21,111 --> 00:14:23,113 I know that in any relationship, 328 00:14:23,197 --> 00:14:27,034 the challenges are specific to who you are as individuals. 329 00:14:27,117 --> 00:14:29,119 Does your, like, whole family live out there, too? 330 00:14:29,203 --> 00:14:32,498 Yeah, I live with my grandma and my family right now. 331 00:14:32,581 --> 00:14:35,125 So before Colin and Emma left that day, 332 00:14:35,292 --> 00:14:38,838 I had five female actors secretly study her 333 00:14:39,088 --> 00:14:42,341 and also had five male actors study Colin. 334 00:14:42,424 --> 00:14:44,760 When you're not flying, what do you like to do? 335 00:14:45,678 --> 00:14:47,304 Hiking, trivia. 336 00:14:48,097 --> 00:14:50,140 - Playing Irish folk music. - Wha… Irish folk music? 337 00:14:50,224 --> 00:14:51,642 - Playing Irish folk music? - Yeah. 338 00:14:51,767 --> 00:14:53,853 These actors needed to learn everything 339 00:14:53,936 --> 00:14:55,938 about this blossoming couple, 340 00:14:56,021 --> 00:14:58,691 because I had a plan that was weeks in the making, 341 00:14:58,858 --> 00:15:02,278 designed specifically to give Colin's new relationship 342 00:15:02,361 --> 00:15:04,405 the best chance of success. 343 00:15:06,282 --> 00:15:09,410 Oh, wow. Yeah, nice. 344 00:15:09,493 --> 00:15:13,455 So, these are saltwater fish, and the one that looks like… 345 00:15:13,581 --> 00:15:17,459 With five exact replicas of Colin's studio apartment 346 00:15:17,585 --> 00:15:21,171 and five fake versions of him and Emma inside of it, 347 00:15:21,463 --> 00:15:24,383 I could use this as a predictive tool 348 00:15:24,466 --> 00:15:27,636 that would hopefully reveal every possible challenge 349 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:29,555 a new couple might face, 350 00:15:29,847 --> 00:15:34,059 allowing Colin to have a sneak peek at his own life. 351 00:15:41,859 --> 00:15:43,110 The actors were able to choose 352 00:15:43,193 --> 00:15:45,654 their own scene partner for this experiment, 353 00:15:45,738 --> 00:15:48,866 based on who they felt the most genuine chemistry with 354 00:15:48,949 --> 00:15:50,409 as their real selves. 355 00:15:51,535 --> 00:15:52,620 Oh, yeah? 356 00:15:53,996 --> 00:15:57,374 This was because I wanted them to decide on their own 357 00:15:57,458 --> 00:16:00,169 how the relationships would organically evolve. 358 00:16:00,294 --> 00:16:02,212 I actually get a little nervous sometimes when I fly. 359 00:16:02,296 --> 00:16:03,297 - Oh, really? - Yeah. 360 00:16:03,422 --> 00:16:05,341 - It can be a little nerve-wracking. - Do you see… 361 00:16:05,466 --> 00:16:08,010 That way, I could observe the challenges 362 00:16:08,093 --> 00:16:10,846 the actors were encountering and that would tell me 363 00:16:10,930 --> 00:16:13,682 what Colin would likely encounter with Emma. 364 00:16:13,766 --> 00:16:16,810 - How's it been going? - I think it's been going good. 365 00:16:16,894 --> 00:16:20,522 I think he's trying to… 366 00:16:21,023 --> 00:16:22,483 I think he's a little nervous. 367 00:16:22,566 --> 00:16:27,529 I tried to give him, like, the eye, and he wasn't taking the hint. 368 00:16:27,613 --> 00:16:30,324 - Okay. "The eye," you said? - Yeah, like, "the eye." 369 00:16:30,407 --> 00:16:31,992 You know, when you look at one eye, 370 00:16:32,076 --> 00:16:33,410 look at the lips, look back up. 371 00:16:33,494 --> 00:16:35,204 - You know, the little trick? - What is that? 372 00:16:35,329 --> 00:16:36,747 It's a little flirty trick women do. 373 00:16:36,830 --> 00:16:38,082 And what's the trick? 374 00:16:38,165 --> 00:16:41,794 It's kind of supposed to be like a subconscious code 375 00:16:41,877 --> 00:16:43,295 for like, "Hey, you wanna kiss me?" 376 00:16:43,379 --> 00:16:44,922 - Oh, really? - I don't know, I tried to get him 377 00:16:44,964 --> 00:16:46,924 to kiss… I don't know, I've tried it before and it worked. 378 00:16:47,007 --> 00:16:48,968 - I got told that once. Yeah. - Oh, really? 379 00:16:49,051 --> 00:16:50,803 Can you just show me… show me what you did? 380 00:16:50,886 --> 00:16:52,179 'Cause I was like… 381 00:16:56,225 --> 00:16:57,226 And the guy's supposed to know 382 00:16:57,309 --> 00:16:58,727 - from that… - Hopefully they get the hint. 383 00:16:58,894 --> 00:17:00,062 I've talked with girls. 384 00:17:00,312 --> 00:17:02,064 - It's a thing. - Yeah, yeah. 385 00:17:02,147 --> 00:17:04,024 - Yeah. - Let me see it again. 386 00:17:08,904 --> 00:17:09,905 All right, yeah. 387 00:17:09,989 --> 00:17:11,448 I sort of see, it's like… Yeah, yeah. 388 00:17:11,532 --> 00:17:13,200 - All right. All right. - I get it. 389 00:17:13,993 --> 00:17:15,536 Okay. All right, cool. 390 00:17:15,661 --> 00:17:17,579 - I'll let you get back to it. - All right, cool. 391 00:17:17,663 --> 00:17:18,998 - Thank you. - Okay. Thanks, yeah. 392 00:17:20,374 --> 00:17:25,421 So, this is so we can predict any issues that might arise for you. 393 00:17:25,504 --> 00:17:29,425 I felt it was finally time to show Colin what we'd been up to. 394 00:17:32,428 --> 00:17:33,637 What do you think? 395 00:17:43,897 --> 00:17:45,065 Very interesting. 396 00:17:45,149 --> 00:17:46,900 But what I was really curious about 397 00:17:46,984 --> 00:17:49,778 was seeing how things were going with him and Emma. 398 00:17:49,862 --> 00:17:51,613 So how was your date? 399 00:17:52,698 --> 00:17:53,741 - Good. - Good? 400 00:17:53,824 --> 00:17:55,826 - It went well. - Was there any… 401 00:17:57,494 --> 00:17:58,537 Kiss action? 402 00:17:58,620 --> 00:17:59,747 - Nope. - No. 403 00:18:01,248 --> 00:18:03,876 Did… Do you feel like she wanted to or… 404 00:18:03,959 --> 00:18:06,503 Didn't notice any hints that indicated it this time. 405 00:18:06,879 --> 00:18:09,965 - Okay. - So, if it was, it was very subtle. 406 00:18:10,424 --> 00:18:12,593 Yeah, well, it can be subtle sometimes, right? 407 00:18:12,718 --> 00:18:14,470 - Yep. - It's sort of hard to tell. 408 00:18:14,636 --> 00:18:17,306 Did she look… Did she stare at you for a while ever? 409 00:18:17,848 --> 00:18:18,932 A couple times. 410 00:18:20,934 --> 00:18:22,561 How do you know that wasn't it? 411 00:18:23,479 --> 00:18:24,563 Good question. 412 00:18:25,064 --> 00:18:26,565 Did she look at your eyes, 413 00:18:26,690 --> 00:18:28,776 then to your lips, and then back to your eyes? 414 00:18:28,901 --> 00:18:30,652 If she did, I didn't notice it. 415 00:18:31,904 --> 00:18:33,655 I mean, but it's not a bad thing. Like… 416 00:18:33,781 --> 00:18:35,324 - Yeah. - …'cause these things are hard 417 00:18:35,407 --> 00:18:37,868 and that's why we have the Pack, right? 418 00:18:38,118 --> 00:18:40,287 - Which was helpful, no? - Yep. 419 00:18:40,871 --> 00:18:42,873 So maybe let's work on it, huh? 420 00:18:54,718 --> 00:18:55,844 Did you just look at me? 421 00:18:55,969 --> 00:18:57,596 - Oh, I was looking that way. - Oh, okay. 422 00:18:57,679 --> 00:18:59,598 - I thought you looked over at me. - I was kind of glancing. 423 00:18:59,681 --> 00:19:00,974 Like kind of scanning the entire thing. 424 00:19:01,058 --> 00:19:02,810 Yeah. Didn't know if you were looking at my face. 425 00:19:03,185 --> 00:19:04,561 - Wow. - Welcome. 426 00:19:04,645 --> 00:19:06,814 This is a really nice place. 427 00:19:07,564 --> 00:19:08,607 - Yeah. - I like it. 428 00:19:08,732 --> 00:19:12,152 - What is that? - That is a… 429 00:19:12,861 --> 00:19:15,155 like a ceremonial spear from Tanzania. 430 00:19:15,239 --> 00:19:17,241 One great thing about the Pack 431 00:19:17,324 --> 00:19:19,660 is that it can make a co-pilot feel 432 00:19:19,743 --> 00:19:22,621 like his struggles are everyone's struggles 433 00:19:22,788 --> 00:19:26,500 and that you're not alone in taking on personal challenges. 434 00:19:26,708 --> 00:19:27,960 So what do you want to do? 435 00:19:28,127 --> 00:19:29,837 That's a good question. 436 00:19:31,004 --> 00:19:33,966 I've got the fish tank over there if you want to learn about fish. 437 00:19:34,550 --> 00:19:36,552 - I can be that nerd. - Yeah, I… 438 00:19:36,635 --> 00:19:39,179 It looks like those two were kissing for a second. 439 00:19:39,263 --> 00:19:40,514 Yeah, they definitely… 440 00:19:41,056 --> 00:19:43,851 They tend to pair up and then do their own thing. 441 00:19:44,852 --> 00:19:46,520 - Kind of funny sometimes. - Yeah. 442 00:19:46,645 --> 00:19:50,357 But I was starting to notice that the Pack had limitations. 443 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,317 How's everything going with Colin? 444 00:19:52,734 --> 00:19:54,194 I think, yeah, good. 445 00:19:54,278 --> 00:19:55,487 - Good? - Yeah, yeah! 446 00:19:55,571 --> 00:19:57,030 Like, he'd tell me about his flying thing. 447 00:19:57,114 --> 00:19:58,991 I'd kind of, like, do a joke or something. 448 00:19:59,074 --> 00:20:01,785 And at least he laughed. Like, I wasn't just, you know… 449 00:20:02,035 --> 00:20:03,162 It went good. 450 00:20:03,245 --> 00:20:05,706 Has he kissed you yet? Tried to kiss you? 451 00:20:05,789 --> 00:20:07,249 - No. - Oh, okay. 452 00:20:07,374 --> 00:20:10,043 Is that something you would want? 453 00:20:11,170 --> 00:20:13,547 Yeah. I mean, yeah. 454 00:20:13,797 --> 00:20:15,716 Oh, okay. Sure. Nice. 455 00:20:15,799 --> 00:20:20,262 But, like, maybe it's my… I'm not giving out the right signals. 456 00:20:20,429 --> 00:20:22,472 - You think that's it? - No, I don't know. 457 00:20:22,556 --> 00:20:23,557 Like, how do you, like… 458 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,475 - How would I signal to him? - What signals do you give? 459 00:20:25,559 --> 00:20:29,354 Like, it's just in the eyes. Like, you give signals that way. 460 00:20:29,438 --> 00:20:31,023 - You're looking at his eyes? - Yeah. 461 00:20:31,106 --> 00:20:32,274 I did it multiple times. 462 00:20:32,357 --> 00:20:34,026 Like, "Are you gonna kiss me or what?" 463 00:20:34,109 --> 00:20:36,486 Whatever Colin practiced with his Pack 464 00:20:36,570 --> 00:20:39,907 didn't seem to be changing his real-world behavior. 465 00:20:39,990 --> 00:20:42,659 But we worked really hard on this kiss thing. 466 00:20:42,743 --> 00:20:43,994 You know a lot about fish. 467 00:20:45,078 --> 00:20:47,039 - Yeah. - That's cool. 468 00:20:49,666 --> 00:20:50,959 - Yep. - Yep. 469 00:20:51,043 --> 00:20:52,502 Well, I mean… 470 00:20:53,003 --> 00:20:56,548 So when I found out where Colin's next date was with Emma, 471 00:20:56,632 --> 00:20:59,134 I was sure to be watching from afar. 472 00:21:00,802 --> 00:21:03,722 - Yes! - From what I could see, 473 00:21:03,805 --> 00:21:07,142 that high-five was the only physical contact they had 474 00:21:07,226 --> 00:21:08,393 while they were playing. 475 00:21:08,477 --> 00:21:11,188 A little more power there, bud. A little more. 476 00:21:11,521 --> 00:21:12,564 That's my line. 477 00:21:13,148 --> 00:21:16,026 But I knew that the classic moment for a kiss 478 00:21:16,109 --> 00:21:17,569 is when you say goodbye. 479 00:21:17,653 --> 00:21:20,697 I can do the concertina, which is using every single finger… 480 00:21:20,781 --> 00:21:22,074 - Yeah, yeah. - …including the pinkies, 481 00:21:22,199 --> 00:21:23,200 which are useless, 482 00:21:23,283 --> 00:21:25,744 - but can't do string. - No? 483 00:21:25,869 --> 00:21:28,497 Well, the… I mean, guitar is not too bad. 484 00:21:28,580 --> 00:21:29,915 That's like the only one. 485 00:21:29,998 --> 00:21:33,210 But like I could not do cello. Violin? 486 00:21:33,293 --> 00:21:34,461 - That… No. That's too hard. - Yeah. 487 00:21:34,544 --> 00:21:36,713 If it has frets, you know where to go. 488 00:21:36,797 --> 00:21:38,757 Yeah, at least you can play around with it, 489 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,843 but that's like you gotta do, like… There's such a little window. 490 00:21:41,927 --> 00:21:43,303 - Yeah. - So, I don't know. 491 00:21:44,054 --> 00:21:45,055 Yeah. 492 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,267 - Is that you? Is that your ride? - No. 493 00:21:48,350 --> 00:21:50,519 I was about to say, if it is, I'm late. 494 00:21:50,602 --> 00:21:52,562 Yep, there's your Uber. Oh, my God. 495 00:21:52,646 --> 00:21:53,772 - Yeah. - Yeah. 496 00:21:54,022 --> 00:21:55,065 Very pretty night. 497 00:21:55,148 --> 00:21:57,567 - Well, it was very nice seeing you. - Yeah, it was nice seeing you, too. 498 00:21:57,693 --> 00:21:59,069 - Thank you, it was fun. - Yeah. 499 00:21:59,152 --> 00:22:00,487 - Drive safe. - You too. 500 00:22:00,570 --> 00:22:01,655 - And, yeah. - I'll see you soon. 501 00:22:01,738 --> 00:22:02,823 See you soon. 502 00:22:05,158 --> 00:22:08,704 Maybe a man's Pack can only get him so far. 503 00:22:09,830 --> 00:22:11,873 I can wear my pilot outfit and be your butler. 504 00:22:11,957 --> 00:22:13,667 - Nice. - And you can have a bell. 505 00:22:14,084 --> 00:22:15,836 Some of these fake relationships 506 00:22:15,919 --> 00:22:18,672 were so far ahead of the real Colin and Emma, 507 00:22:18,714 --> 00:22:21,091 they bore almost no resemblance. 508 00:22:23,093 --> 00:22:25,554 But the actor's choice of how and when 509 00:22:25,637 --> 00:22:27,973 to become intimate intrigued me. 510 00:22:28,557 --> 00:22:30,434 Before the experiment began, 511 00:22:30,684 --> 00:22:33,770 I had given the actors the freedom to not participate 512 00:22:33,854 --> 00:22:36,023 if they felt they had a conflict of interest. 513 00:22:36,148 --> 00:22:37,524 Yeah, I guess I should ask you guys 514 00:22:38,608 --> 00:22:40,944 if either of you are in a relationship or anything 515 00:22:41,028 --> 00:22:43,155 and you would want to opt out of this because of that. 516 00:22:43,238 --> 00:22:45,073 - I don't know if that's something… - Oh, no… 517 00:22:45,157 --> 00:22:46,533 Are either of you in a relationship? 518 00:22:46,616 --> 00:22:47,826 - I'm not. - You're not? 519 00:22:47,909 --> 00:22:49,619 - I am. Yeah. - Oh, you are? 520 00:22:49,703 --> 00:22:51,330 - Okay, is that okay? - No, but this is… 521 00:22:51,413 --> 00:22:53,373 - Yeah, totally fine. Yeah. - Okay. 522 00:22:53,498 --> 00:22:56,752 But one of the actresses said something I couldn't shake. 523 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:58,879 When I'm like approaching, like, a love scene, 524 00:22:59,004 --> 00:23:01,089 obviously I know it's not "real" real, 525 00:23:01,298 --> 00:23:02,799 but, like, it was real 526 00:23:02,883 --> 00:23:04,426 for like a minute. You know what I mean? 527 00:23:04,509 --> 00:23:06,595 It's real for you when you're doing it? 528 00:23:06,678 --> 00:23:08,930 Yeah, like it's happening while it's happening. 529 00:23:09,056 --> 00:23:10,849 - But it's not "real" real. - Does that make sense? Yeah. 530 00:23:10,932 --> 00:23:12,184 - Like the emotions feel real. - Yeah. 531 00:23:12,267 --> 00:23:14,353 It feels like it's… I'm like, "Oh, I really, like… 532 00:23:14,436 --> 00:23:16,229 I feel this way about this person right now." 533 00:23:16,313 --> 00:23:17,689 - Like feel love? - Yeah. 534 00:23:17,773 --> 00:23:20,192 And your boyfriend's like cool with all that? 535 00:23:20,275 --> 00:23:22,027 - Yeah. - Okay. 536 00:23:22,110 --> 00:23:23,403 - It's good that he understands. - Yeah. 537 00:23:23,487 --> 00:23:24,613 He would get fired otherwise. 538 00:23:26,615 --> 00:23:28,367 This was confusing to me. 539 00:23:28,492 --> 00:23:33,205 I recently acted in a dramatic series that aired on Paramount Plus, 540 00:23:33,288 --> 00:23:36,249 a network with some questionable viewpoints. 541 00:23:36,333 --> 00:23:38,960 In the show, I had to act as a husband 542 00:23:39,044 --> 00:23:41,213 who was deeply in love with his wife. 543 00:23:41,296 --> 00:23:43,507 - I'm so happy. - You are. 544 00:23:44,299 --> 00:23:45,550 You are happy. 545 00:23:45,634 --> 00:23:49,721 But even though I was mimicking the expressions of a man in love, 546 00:23:49,805 --> 00:23:51,056 inside my head, 547 00:23:51,181 --> 00:23:54,768 I didn't feel that at all for the actress playing my wife. 548 00:23:55,185 --> 00:23:57,646 I was basically just copying the expressions 549 00:23:57,729 --> 00:24:01,650 of other people in love that I had seen on TV and movies. 550 00:24:02,734 --> 00:24:06,530 So I didn't understand how an actor can be feeling real love 551 00:24:06,613 --> 00:24:09,157 in a completely fake relationship. 552 00:24:13,286 --> 00:24:15,789 We had an intimacy coordinator on set 553 00:24:15,872 --> 00:24:18,041 that the actors were free to consult with 554 00:24:18,125 --> 00:24:19,876 before doing anything with each other. 555 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,170 So what did they say they wanted to do? 556 00:24:22,504 --> 00:24:25,298 Well, they said that they've already kissed a lot, 557 00:24:26,007 --> 00:24:28,301 so that's obviously okay with them. 558 00:24:28,969 --> 00:24:32,681 Like, physically, they seem like they're really… comfortable. 559 00:24:32,764 --> 00:24:34,724 You know she has a boyfriend, right? 560 00:24:34,933 --> 00:24:36,476 In real life? 561 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,270 - Yeah. - Yeah. 562 00:24:38,687 --> 00:24:39,813 She didn't mention it. 563 00:24:39,896 --> 00:24:42,107 Oh, no, but I'm just saying, like… 564 00:24:43,150 --> 00:24:44,276 Yeah. 565 00:24:45,986 --> 00:24:47,362 It's weird, isn't it? 566 00:24:47,446 --> 00:24:51,116 But it's one of those things that like actors get to do. 567 00:24:54,035 --> 00:24:55,245 I know. 568 00:24:56,538 --> 00:24:59,166 Because this wasn't a traditional acting role, 569 00:24:59,249 --> 00:25:02,169 in an effort to maintain full transparency, 570 00:25:02,252 --> 00:25:04,254 I encouraged the actors to invite 571 00:25:04,337 --> 00:25:06,465 any significant others they might have 572 00:25:06,548 --> 00:25:08,800 to come observe everything we were doing. 573 00:25:08,884 --> 00:25:12,721 - She's pretty talented, huh? - Yeah. Look at her go. 574 00:25:14,514 --> 00:25:16,016 How long you guys been together? 575 00:25:16,349 --> 00:25:17,559 A year and a half. 576 00:25:17,684 --> 00:25:19,060 - Oh, nice. - Yeah. 577 00:25:20,353 --> 00:25:22,355 But we've known each other for longer than that. 578 00:25:22,606 --> 00:25:23,982 - Oh, really? - Yeah. 579 00:25:28,612 --> 00:25:29,946 You cool with all this? 580 00:25:30,697 --> 00:25:32,032 She's an actress. 581 00:25:32,324 --> 00:25:35,577 I was realizing there's this magical thing that happens 582 00:25:35,660 --> 00:25:37,871 when people say that they're acting. 583 00:25:39,372 --> 00:25:40,499 For these guys… 584 00:25:41,500 --> 00:25:45,837 could you ask them how far they'd be comfortable going 585 00:25:45,921 --> 00:25:48,590 in terms of intimacy? 586 00:25:49,049 --> 00:25:51,885 So part of that is up to you, 587 00:25:52,010 --> 00:25:54,137 like, in terms of… 'cause you're the director, like… 588 00:25:54,596 --> 00:25:57,807 What is the story that you want to tell through the intimacy? 589 00:25:58,850 --> 00:26:00,727 I'd like to leave it up to them… 590 00:26:01,186 --> 00:26:04,022 - if that's okay. - Okay. Okay. 591 00:26:08,068 --> 00:26:09,236 Take it off. 592 00:26:15,242 --> 00:26:18,912 I mean, it's not like my favorite thing to see 593 00:26:18,995 --> 00:26:22,290 but it doesn't feel like I'm watching 594 00:26:22,999 --> 00:26:25,085 my girlfriend get intimate with another man. 595 00:26:25,168 --> 00:26:30,507 It feels like… I'm watching the character she's created. 596 00:26:30,924 --> 00:26:35,720 Like, she's assumed a character, and I assume so has he. 597 00:26:35,804 --> 00:26:36,930 So, it's… 598 00:26:38,056 --> 00:26:41,434 It's in a weird way like removed from themselves. 599 00:26:41,768 --> 00:26:44,688 It was like the concept of acting itself 600 00:26:44,771 --> 00:26:46,940 disarmed everyone in its presence. 601 00:26:47,023 --> 00:26:49,442 - Oh, hi! - How's it going? 602 00:26:49,526 --> 00:26:54,114 And the actor gets a free pass for virtually any behavior. 603 00:26:55,490 --> 00:26:57,492 Everything I'd been trying to do 604 00:26:57,576 --> 00:27:01,079 just comes down to getting co-pilots and captains 605 00:27:01,162 --> 00:27:03,790 to both act on their true feelings. 606 00:27:04,332 --> 00:27:07,043 Either speaking up about their fears, 607 00:27:07,127 --> 00:27:11,256 or admitting to your co-pilot that you might not know everything. 608 00:27:11,631 --> 00:27:14,968 These are feelings that every pilot already has, 609 00:27:15,093 --> 00:27:17,345 but many struggle to act upon 610 00:27:17,429 --> 00:27:19,973 because they fear the consequences. 611 00:27:20,515 --> 00:27:24,185 Could the concept of acting give pilots a loophole 612 00:27:24,269 --> 00:27:26,813 to do the things they're most afraid of? 613 00:27:26,938 --> 00:27:29,024 So have you ever acted before? 614 00:27:29,899 --> 00:27:30,942 No, I haven't. 615 00:27:31,276 --> 00:27:34,321 Is it something you'd be interested in giving a try? 616 00:27:36,531 --> 00:27:37,532 Possibly. 617 00:27:38,033 --> 00:27:40,535 So this scene will be mostly improv, 618 00:27:40,619 --> 00:27:42,871 and your character is named Captain Powers 619 00:27:42,954 --> 00:27:44,205 - in this, okay? - All right. 620 00:27:44,289 --> 00:27:45,332 - A little funny, right? - Yeah. 621 00:27:45,415 --> 00:27:48,001 And he's called that because he actually has a power, 622 00:27:48,126 --> 00:27:50,128 which is that every date he goes on, 623 00:27:50,712 --> 00:27:55,550 he has no problem asking for a kiss and then doing it. Okay? 624 00:27:56,134 --> 00:27:59,346 And the other character is named Jennifer Kissme. 625 00:27:59,763 --> 00:28:02,515 And Jennifer will be played by Emma. 626 00:28:02,891 --> 00:28:04,100 - Okay. - Okay. 627 00:28:04,184 --> 00:28:05,935 - Who's an actress, as you know. - Yeah. 628 00:28:06,019 --> 00:28:09,022 All right. Well, let me go get your scene partner then. 629 00:28:09,105 --> 00:28:10,106 Okay. 630 00:28:13,818 --> 00:28:15,528 For your character, just think about 631 00:28:15,612 --> 00:28:16,946 where you're coming from, 632 00:28:17,030 --> 00:28:18,782 what you're doing now, and where you're going. 633 00:28:19,157 --> 00:28:21,534 Okay, I'm inviting this person back to my apartment. 634 00:28:21,618 --> 00:28:23,953 Like, how do you feel about me as the character? 635 00:28:24,037 --> 00:28:25,330 - Like, think about that. - Yep. 636 00:28:25,413 --> 00:28:26,414 It's not that bad. 637 00:28:26,498 --> 00:28:27,916 It's literally like, it's nothing, dude. 638 00:28:27,999 --> 00:28:29,751 It's… It's… I could not fly a plane. 639 00:28:29,834 --> 00:28:31,670 You can act. Like, anybody can… 640 00:28:32,253 --> 00:28:34,214 - You're just being yourself. So… - Okay. 641 00:28:34,339 --> 00:28:36,091 Wow. Yeah, it's really nice. 642 00:28:36,174 --> 00:28:37,384 - Thank you. - Yeah. 643 00:28:37,467 --> 00:28:38,718 A little bit cluttered, but… 644 00:28:39,219 --> 00:28:41,262 - Really good picture. - Yeah, that was about 9,000 feet 645 00:28:41,346 --> 00:28:43,264 descending into Indianapolis. 646 00:28:43,348 --> 00:28:44,516 What camera do you have? 647 00:28:44,599 --> 00:28:46,476 - That was just an iPhone. - Can I sit down? 648 00:28:46,559 --> 00:28:47,936 - Oh yeah, of course. - Yeah? 649 00:28:48,019 --> 00:28:49,270 Yeah, that's really cool. 650 00:28:50,313 --> 00:28:52,190 Yeah, I don't know where I got the eye for photography 651 00:28:52,315 --> 00:28:53,817 'cause neither of my parents are good at it. 652 00:28:53,900 --> 00:28:54,901 - Really? - Yeah. 653 00:28:55,026 --> 00:28:56,945 And then I can use the tipper here and… 654 00:29:02,409 --> 00:29:05,328 They are very well known for their red wines. 655 00:29:05,412 --> 00:29:06,913 - Okay. - Like the Malbecs. 656 00:29:07,288 --> 00:29:09,040 Well, what's the best one, have you noticed? 657 00:29:09,124 --> 00:29:12,001 I think overall my favorites are from Portugal. 658 00:29:12,085 --> 00:29:13,253 - Yeah? - For such a small country, 659 00:29:13,336 --> 00:29:16,297 they've got a pretty wide variety of climates to grow. 660 00:29:16,339 --> 00:29:18,550 So you get subtle differences depending on where you get it. 661 00:29:18,633 --> 00:29:21,177 If you get it from the north side or from the south side. 662 00:29:21,803 --> 00:29:23,012 - Yeah. - Yeah. 663 00:29:27,434 --> 00:29:28,768 Yeah. 664 00:29:31,438 --> 00:29:32,439 Can I kiss you? 665 00:29:43,366 --> 00:29:44,492 - Yeah. - Yeah. 666 00:29:46,911 --> 00:29:47,954 I don't know. 667 00:29:48,538 --> 00:29:49,664 You don't know? 668 00:29:49,748 --> 00:29:52,208 We could open up one of those bottles of wine, if you like. 669 00:29:52,417 --> 00:29:53,460 Sure. 670 00:29:54,794 --> 00:29:58,381 Maybe we all need an excuse to be our true selves, 671 00:29:58,465 --> 00:30:00,383 and we're just looking for permission. 672 00:30:00,467 --> 00:30:02,177 I'm trying to be like, "Portugal," 673 00:30:02,260 --> 00:30:03,803 - or like, "Yeah, yeah." - No. 674 00:30:04,012 --> 00:30:05,138 Yeah, it's good. 675 00:30:05,221 --> 00:30:06,347 - Yeah? - Yeah. 676 00:30:09,642 --> 00:30:10,727 Yeah. 677 00:30:12,061 --> 00:30:14,731 It was hard to know the meaning of a single kiss 678 00:30:14,814 --> 00:30:16,357 on someone's cheek. 679 00:30:17,192 --> 00:30:21,029 But if this allowed a co-pilot to act on how they really feel, 680 00:30:21,696 --> 00:30:24,199 maybe I was actually onto something. 681 00:30:24,407 --> 00:30:25,575 You actually did really good. 682 00:30:25,658 --> 00:30:27,160 - I didn't think… I mean, I was… - Thank you. 683 00:30:27,243 --> 00:30:29,579 Yeah, that tip you gave me about figuring out where… 684 00:30:29,662 --> 00:30:32,415 like, where we came from rather than just, you show up… 685 00:30:32,499 --> 00:30:34,083 - Yeah. - …was very helpful. 686 00:30:36,753 --> 00:30:37,837 Oh, wow. 687 00:30:38,338 --> 00:30:40,548 So HBO is paying for all this, 688 00:30:40,632 --> 00:30:43,510 and they basically gave me, you know, a blank check 689 00:30:43,593 --> 00:30:45,220 as long as I don't go over budget. 690 00:30:45,386 --> 00:30:46,387 Wow. 691 00:30:46,638 --> 00:30:48,890 Yeah, the only requirement is that… 692 00:30:49,766 --> 00:30:52,477 everything I'm doing related to aviation safety 693 00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,730 has to be somewhat entertaining, I guess. 694 00:30:55,939 --> 00:30:58,024 Right. That's what sells. 695 00:31:05,156 --> 00:31:06,783 - You recognize this? - Yeah, I do. 696 00:31:07,367 --> 00:31:08,910 I knew that the only place 697 00:31:08,993 --> 00:31:13,248 to make real change happen in aviation is through Congress. 698 00:31:13,414 --> 00:31:17,210 That's what former NTSB member John Goglia told me. 699 00:31:17,502 --> 00:31:20,088 And he said that if I ever had a solution 700 00:31:20,171 --> 00:31:23,424 to this cockpit communication issue I've been exploring, 701 00:31:23,508 --> 00:31:25,885 we could work together to get it on the radar 702 00:31:25,969 --> 00:31:28,263 of lawmakers in Washington, D.C. 703 00:31:28,346 --> 00:31:30,890 This is some footage I've captured. 704 00:31:31,933 --> 00:31:33,768 These are real pilots. 705 00:31:33,893 --> 00:31:37,146 They're not saying a single word to each other. 706 00:31:37,230 --> 00:31:38,439 Right. I see it all over. 707 00:31:38,523 --> 00:31:39,691 - You see it? - Yeah. 708 00:31:39,774 --> 00:31:42,610 In my research, I'm finding out all these pilots… 709 00:31:42,735 --> 00:31:44,404 there's all this time before the flight 710 00:31:44,487 --> 00:31:45,864 where they're hanging out 711 00:31:45,947 --> 00:31:48,449 in the pilot's lounge or in different situations, 712 00:31:48,533 --> 00:31:50,034 and they're just sitting apart. 713 00:31:50,118 --> 00:31:51,995 Yep, I see that, too. 714 00:31:52,245 --> 00:31:53,454 - You do? - Yes. 715 00:31:53,538 --> 00:31:57,917 So, I'm thinking it's less about, you know, this critical moment 716 00:31:58,001 --> 00:31:59,752 where you might need to take over the controls 717 00:31:59,836 --> 00:32:00,962 and assert yourself, 718 00:32:01,045 --> 00:32:04,340 and more about trying to establish a relationship 719 00:32:04,674 --> 00:32:07,927 from the very start so there's no friction 720 00:32:08,219 --> 00:32:10,138 when an emergency actually happens. 721 00:32:10,221 --> 00:32:11,848 - Right, right. - Does that make sense? 722 00:32:11,931 --> 00:32:13,057 That does make sense. 723 00:32:13,433 --> 00:32:17,145 I don't think anybody's focused in on that part of it. The… 724 00:32:17,687 --> 00:32:20,315 Most of the programs have been focused in the cockpit, 725 00:32:20,899 --> 00:32:23,776 and they're not looking outside the cockpit. 726 00:32:23,860 --> 00:32:25,445 And I think there's some low-hanging fruit 727 00:32:25,528 --> 00:32:26,613 outside the cockpit. 728 00:32:27,238 --> 00:32:29,324 Why am I the only one talking about this? 729 00:32:29,407 --> 00:32:31,826 I don't think the airlines are focused in on it. 730 00:32:32,493 --> 00:32:34,162 Congress can be motivated, 731 00:32:34,329 --> 00:32:40,001 but Congress is a difficult place to drive change. 732 00:32:40,627 --> 00:32:42,170 But I think you're onto something. 733 00:32:42,712 --> 00:32:44,964 Sorry, give me one sec here. 734 00:32:53,681 --> 00:32:55,475 Chairs don't move that easily, I guess. 735 00:33:05,777 --> 00:33:07,946 Amazing grace! 736 00:33:08,029 --> 00:33:12,659 How sweet the sound That saved a wretch like me! 737 00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:14,160 Amazing grace! 738 00:33:14,243 --> 00:33:17,413 I once was lost but now I'm found 739 00:33:17,497 --> 00:33:19,749 Was blind but now I see 740 00:33:19,832 --> 00:33:21,709 Amazing grace! 741 00:33:21,793 --> 00:33:24,087 I once was lost 742 00:33:24,212 --> 00:33:27,840 But now I'm found 743 00:33:27,966 --> 00:33:34,097 Was blind but now I see 744 00:33:34,263 --> 00:33:37,558 Amazing grace 745 00:33:37,684 --> 00:33:40,478 How sweet the sound 746 00:33:40,603 --> 00:33:45,233 That saved a wretch like me 747 00:33:45,358 --> 00:33:46,734 - Me - Me